He stresses that it is a woman’s duty to look her very best. She needs to have proper manners and wear make-up, but not too much so as not to detract from natural beauty. Women should hide proof of any substances they have used to beautify themselves, so as their men would never see them and could remain ignorant. He also emphasizes on the ways in which women with different bodies can look their very best while in bed with a man, showing that most of the physical attributes in the relationship relies on the women. There is no mention of a woman’s personality, which shows that for Ovid, the relationship is solely sexual with no real lasting …show more content…
Like Ovid, Sulpicia I lived during the reign of Augustus and was an important patron of literature during that time. She expresses in her poetry that she has found love and feels honored to finally show the world the amazing gift she has received. Although her “love” mostly revolved around sex, she was willing to tell the public what she had done. Nevertheless, for women this came with a price because while “indiscretion is fun” (line 15), her duty as a woman of Roman aristocracy was to protect her and her family’s names by maintain an unsullied reputation for chastity. She was conflicted between what she would like to do and with what she is obliged to do. And even though she was in “love,” it was evident to her that it had to remain a secret to keep her political