What Is Nora Like A Doll

“No, I have never been happy, I thought I was, but it has never really been so” (Act 3, pg.76). In , A Doll’s House, Henrik Ibsen showcases the struggles of either having independence or security. Wondering whether Nora should rise above gender issues and be her own person or stay with her controlling husband who treats her like a doll. Throughout this classic play, Nora’s feelings toward Torvald have altered to the point where she needs to decide what is best for her. The only reason Nora’s feeling started to to change was because of her trying to get the letter back from Krogstad which had the proof of what she done. Failing in the process, Nora assumes that her husband will come to the rescue and save her from the blackmailing of Krogstad. Instead of risking his reputation for Nora, Torvald only looks out for himself. “He can make the affair known everywhere; and if he does, I may be falsely suspected of having been a party to your criminal action”(Act 3, pg.73). To witness the selfishness that Torvald possess shatters the ideal life Nora had once thought she lived.”Yes,it is true! I am saved! Nora, I am saved”(Act 3, pg.73).
“Do I need to tell you that? Are they not your duties to your husband and your children”(Act 3, pg.78). Torvald thinks that she is neglecting her duties as a wife and mother but Nora’s duties are to herself. Wishing Torvald was the husband for her, he’s sadly not. “You blind, foolish woman” (Act 3, pg.79). Nora is sincerely sorry for her actions but for her leaving Torvald and the children is the best choice. “I must stand quite alone, if I am to understand myself and everything about me. It is for that reason that I cannot remain with you any longer”(Act 3, pg.77). It is in this exact moment Torvald realizes that his relationship with Nora is completely gone, and there is no going