“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been,” shows Connie’s double lifestyle brings her to a load of trouble. If only she would have let her family know where she was going, and where she had been, she would not be overpowered by Arnold Friend. Joyce Carol Oates writes her story as if it were a movie. The figurative language, setting, and plot assist the readers while reading this story.…
The short story by Joyce Oates, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” leaves many readers uncomfortable with the actions of “Connie” the main character who is in the midst of adolescent rebellion. Connie is a character who argues with her mother and sister, neglects family life in favor of scoping out boys at the local restaurant, does everything she can to appear older and wiser than she is, and has a mind filled with daydreams and popular music that feed her unrealistic ideas of love and romance. When the stranger, Arnold Friend, arrives at Connie’s house, she must confront the harsh realities of adulthood, which bear little resemblance to her fantasies.…
Joyce Carol Oates’ “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” is about a 15 year old girl named Connie. Connie is the dark blond haired girl who catches all the attention and knows she looks good. The story is somewhat journalistic in the sense that there are few extreme stylistic flourishes or complicated sentence structures. Oates's spare style allows the images in the story to stand out in realistic coherence, in a way that makes one feel they have some unexplainable importance. “There’s your sister in a blue dress, huh?…
In “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” the author uses clothes as a symbol to reveal our protagonist and antagonist individualities. Connie who is our protagonist is a fifteen-year-old girl who has the habit of craning her neck to glance into mirrors. Connie wears a pullover jersey blouse that looked one way when she is home and another way when she is away, in where she wears shorts. In the text, it states that “They must have been familiar sights walking around the shopping plaza in their shorts and flat ballerina slippers that always scuffed the sidewalk, with charm bracelets jingling on their wrist” (Oates 836). In other words, Connie uses clothes to look attractive, and mature by older men by wearing short clothes, most importantly she believes she is pretty, which also plays a role in her actions and the kinds of clothes she wears. Whereas, the…
Joyce Carol Oates’s short story, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” focuses on the seemingly typical life of a teenage girl, Connie. The character irony is found in the fact that a teenage girl in the 1960’s struggled with the same issues teenagers battle with in present society. Connie, the main character, fights with her parents, does not want to be like her older sister, and thinks very highly of herself. As a teenage girl typically believes, Connie imagines she is the center of attention and everything revolves around her, including everyone else’s problems. But, in contrast to most teenage girls, she conceals her sexual personality while she is at home.…
In Joyce Carol Oates’ “Where are you going, where have you been?”, Oates tells the story of a young girl named Connie, who is vain, self-centered, rude to her parents, and in an incredible hurry to grow up. She has two different personalities, “one for home, and one for anywhere that was not home.” Everything about her including her smile, her laugh, and her walk transforms as soon as she steps out her front door. Connie, the protagonist of the story, wants to be a part of the world of “big kids” until a shiny golden convertible pulls up one day in her driveway and the mysterious Arnold Friend emerges. Oates uses in-depth characterization and symbolism…
“Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates is a short story that brings many girl’s nightmares to life. The story is one about a young, naïve girl named Connie, and her deranged abductor, Arnold Friend. Oates uses the setting in Connie’s life to create a very realistic situation. Oates also uses descriptive language to create vivid images of the setting, charters, and the emotions Connie feels. By analyzing Connie’s home setting and the descriptive language Oates uses, we will be able to further understand how Connie’s thoughts and actions were effected by her setting.…
Joyce Carol Oates’ “Where Are You Going, Where Have you been?” is a coming-of-age short story that depicts the virtually invisible barrier between adolescence and adulthood. Connie is a feisty fifteen-year-old girl that doesn’t intend to ride in the backseat for the duration of her younger years, unlike her older sister June, who her mother tends to favor throughout most of the story. Her mother causes most of the friction in the house between the two, mainly because “[e]verything about [Connie] had two sides to it, one for home and one for anywhere that was not home” (Oates 552). One critical attribute Oates gives Connie is her undeniable infatuation to sexual curiosity and her willingness to explore. Oates paints Connie identical to average…
In “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?,” by Joyce Carol Oates, Connie, like most teens, needs support as she starts on an internal, precarious journey towards maturity. Traditionally, culture plays a major role in offering guidelines for an adolescent’s journey of solitude and personal identity. An example of these guidelines are fairytales and folklores. Fairytales are read or told to children to provide a moral understanding of good and evil by using symbolic images and happy endings. Oates frequently portrays characters and situations that resemble the themes of different fairytales throughout her short story. She merges into her story the themes of The Pied Piper of Hamelin, Little Red Riding Hood, and Cinderella. Connie is at the…
At first glance, the story “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates seems like a regular story where a girl just has home problems like every other teenager. However, by looking more into the story you can see that the locations of where Connie is at, mean something different. In my opinion, I believe that the setting plays a significant role in the way Connie alternates her personality around her family and friends. When she is out with friends and not at home with family, she seems in a way, happier. I can relate to Connie, because I was always being compared to my sisters as well, and leaving the house meant that I could actually be who I was.…
Teenagers in general are often stereotyped into one general category: unruly, uncaring, and self-absorbed. In the short story “Where are You Going, Where Have You Been?” Joyce Carol Oates plays on this stereotype. She uses imagery and point of view to direct the reader’s attention to the teenage girl psyche, selfish, whimsical, and longing for attention and affection, and how this stereotypical psyche can be distorted and controlled.…
I believe the theme of the short story, "Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been" is focused on the imagination versus the reality of the main character, Connie. Connie perceives herself as a functioning mature woman by the way she dresses, styles her hair, and her overall demeanor. Connie convinces herself that she is this mature person who has it all figured out but when she is approached by this character, Arnold, her insecurities begin to emerge. Once Arnold begins to harass Connie, she resorts to childlike behavior and her anxiety increases. The author represents Arnold as a boy but he is quite possibly a figment of Connie's imagination, he represented her actual fear of becoming an adult. "She watched herself push the door slowly open…
Growing up every person in the world loses the purity they were once born with and the moment when one realizes that not everything in the world is the way it was thought to be, the world crumbles into pieces, but how does it happen? Joyce Carol Oates portrays an amazing detailed moment of theft of chastity, or at least what is left of it, in "Where Are You Going, Where have You Been?" With symbolic imagery, major bibliomancy, and extreme personal conflict Oates easily manages to get her point across of the complete loss of innocence.…
Joyce Carol Oates captured more than just the reader when she wrote the story, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been.” Oates recreates an event that took place in the mid-1960s, where a grown man, who had shaggy black hair and a boyish charm, would lure teenage girls into his car, rape and murder them, and then bury their bodies in the desert. The fate of the main character in “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been” lies between Oates’s wavering suspense. From the beginning Oates shows the reader that the story is a flashback. “Her name was Connie.”…
In Joyce Carol Oates’s short story, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” (1966), Connie is an adolescent that faces literal and psychological challenges. Within the conflicts of the story, there are two compelling questions that allow you to take a special interest of a deeper meaning. Taken from the title, where has Connie been? Where is Connie going?…