Why Men Marry Certain Women and Not Others

After reading John T. Molly’s book “Why Men Marry Some Women and Not Others” I have a much clearer understanding about why men marry certain women and not others. It’s not just because guys are idiots, but there are multiple reasons to what determines marriage between a man and a woman. First, I would like to discuss the six basic guidelines that are statistically proven that Molly discusses in the introduction. They are simple yet effective such as first “insist on it’’, a woman needs slowly keep insisting her man that she wants to get married. Second, “if you are in a dead end relationship, move on”, If women know that their relationship is going nowhere it’s pointless to stay in it. Third, “love yourself first”, it’s important to love yourself first because how can we expect someone else to love us if we don’t love ourselves. Forth, “Commit yourself to the idea of getting married”, this is very important because if a woman really wants to get married she will be committed to the idea. Fifth, “Keep in shape and, watch your weight and take care of your appearance”. It’s very important to be physically attractive because men always wanted to be attracted to the woman they marry, that usually means big breasts and a trim body. Last, but not least “Time can be your worst enemy. Use time wisely in your search for the marrying man. Time is important because everything has to be taken into account, for example, having kids, there is a biological clock. Now all of the above are guidelines are specified if a woman wants to get married, they all are valid points which I believe work very effectively. I can easily apply these basic rules to my life, for example rule five to be trim and watch your weight, that is very true and I know that very well because I’m not trim so I already lack a quality that a majority of men see as a necessity.

Next, in chapter two the author talks about how first impressions and how important they are. What is interesting is