Sometimes people for their own benefit may do anything, including lie. But what is actually lies, and why people lie to their relatives? Why instead of truth they choose lies?
One of the main reasons can be anxiety. Anxiety of getting in trouble and being abused. Fear that no one will understand your problem. Understand how you feel and what you think. Most of the times people are just getting confused in what others will think. When a person is lying he doesn’t think about the consequences and that some days everybody will find it out. But when it all comes out your condition even gets worsen. Now no one will believe you anymore, until you will earn the trust. People will treat you in the same way as you treated them. They will treat you with no respect and they will not care about what you think.
As I said, lying about what you've done makes the situation far worse. It will not only make your relatives do not trust you but even you yourself will suffer too. Your conscience will not allow you to live calmly. The first thing you have to do is to think about your decision .Think about decision of which you will not regret. It is very easy to make a mistake but it is very difficult to take back what you’ve already said. Most of the times people think that it is too late to tell the truth and this is a big problem. It is never too late to confess; because when people will see that you are honest with them, even though you lied to them already, they still will appreciate that. They will see that you understood your mistake and they will absolutely forgive you.
You might think that the only consequence that might happened is that you will get abused. Most likely your parents will scold you, but not because they really want to do so ,It’s because they love you and want to make you a better person .Usually children are getting offended by their