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Slaughter’s essay “why women still can’t have it all “is about working women like herself, struggle with balancing between families and work and how it limits professional working mothers She explains that women who “want it all” is not possible with today’s economy and society She uses her own and other working mother’s personal stories to make a better connection for her readers to understand her side of the argument. She talks about being a mother of two teenage boys and working a high demanding government job, and how she found herself torn between each other. It was hard or her to be away from her kids and wanted to be home enjoying the boys while they were still living at home. Instead, her work was taking up all her energy and time. …show more content…
She mentions that time is an important factor for women with highly demanding jobs. It makes these working women struggle with making time for their professional accomplishments and personal life. Women shouldn’t be discouraged by other people, just because she decided to be a stay at home mother. She explains that a certain reputation was built for women and women have held on to this feminist philosophy ha they were raised with. She reminds working mothers that they don’t have to sacrifice personal happiness with professional success. Feminists believe that working women should get that same treatment in the workforce as men do, however, Slaughter believes that mothers need to be involved in their family and always be there for their children when they need help. She also believes to close the leadership gap by selecting women for leadership roles like women as president or have more women to become senators. To ensure women are treated equally in the ranks of corporate executives and judicial

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