The story begins with the woman telling of her depression and both her husband and brother, who happen to be medical practitioners, dismissing her claims. She voices this when she writes in her journal, "[y]ou see, he does not believe I am sick! And what can one do?" Her claims are dismissed by the most important men in her life, and she feels helpless. She is told, by these men, how her own body is feeling. We have to understand that in this time and era, she is living in a patriarchal society. The men, as seen, controls much of what is going on, and in our protagonist's position even tries to control the state of her health. She, as all women of that era, were discouraged from venturing out of their domain, so she feels as though she must accept it when they put no value to her opinion. She gives further evidence of this when she speaks of her husband. "John laughs at me, of course, but one expects that in marriage." This sentence illustrates the dominant-submissive relationship not only between our narrator and her husband, John, but most married women of the time. The sentence plays up the male laughing and the female assenting. He viewed her ideas as amusing, much as a father laughs at his daughter's silly fancies. It's much easier to understand this relationship if you view the narrator as the daughter, while her husband acts as a
The story begins with the woman telling of her depression and both her husband and brother, who happen to be medical practitioners, dismissing her claims. She voices this when she writes in her journal, "[y]ou see, he does not believe I am sick! And what can one do?" Her claims are dismissed by the most important men in her life, and she feels helpless. She is told, by these men, how her own body is feeling. We have to understand that in this time and era, she is living in a patriarchal society. The men, as seen, controls much of what is going on, and in our protagonist's position even tries to control the state of her health. She, as all women of that era, were discouraged from venturing out of their domain, so she feels as though she must accept it when they put no value to her opinion. She gives further evidence of this when she speaks of her husband. "John laughs at me, of course, but one expects that in marriage." This sentence illustrates the dominant-submissive relationship not only between our narrator and her husband, John, but most married women of the time. The sentence plays up the male laughing and the female assenting. He viewed her ideas as amusing, much as a father laughs at his daughter's silly fancies. It's much easier to understand this relationship if you view the narrator as the daughter, while her husband acts as a