Women's Role In Vietnam

The culture of Vietnam influenced by Confucianism very much. It affects very strong on family, especially men. Therefore, men often look down women. Sometimes, he is fastidious with a woman and beating women. As a result, some of women felt unhappy when she lives with her husband. Thus, here are some methods to change the way men treat women.
First of all, the men should share responsibility with the women such as housework, taking care of their children and cooking. In a culture of Vietnam, the men think that they play the important role in their family. They have to take the responsibility to earn money to support their family. As a result, the men just think they work outside. They do not care work in their family. However, nowadays, women are more educationally and taking part more in the labor force than ever before. They also earn money to support a family like the men. Therefore, the men should respect his wife. In addition, the men ought to help his companion when she needs. The
consequence, the life of family become happier, for example, I have a friend who works for IT companies. He is very busy in his work. However, he is always to spend time with his family. Especially, helping his wife to attend on their children, do housework when his companion come back home late. I believe that his family very happy because he knows the way to share responsibility with his wife.
Secondly, the women can keep silent when the men got angry.
In my opinion, it is a good way to change the way men behave with women. The life of the family is not easy at all. Particularly, living with the dominant person. The men often show their power on their family. They hate to argue with their wife. They want to make a decision in private. Therefore, when the women live with the dominant men, she should keep soundless when the man get furious. Very simple the men want the women to comply with them. They do not want the other to react, whether right or wrong. At that time, if the women react in heated, it does not only resolve problems but also cause to many bad results. Thus, keeping silent is a fine way to make the men change their attitude. Moreover, when her husband reduced angry and felt comfortable, she can talk with him by her heart and love. Perhaps, the men will realize what is right and what is wrong. As the result, the men will change the way his behave with his
wife.
In conclusion, to convert the way the men treat is not easy at all. Therefore, we need to keep patient very much. The man tries to share housework with the women. Trying to spend more time to help her to watch the children and cook the meals. In contrast, the women can change their attitude when the men got the hot temper. When the men and the women do so, their family will become a happy family.