Writing To Heal Analysis

An opposite theory is just as compelling, however. “She may have chosen to enter the space of silence, a space where power is no longer an issue, gender is no longer an issue, voice is no longer an issue, where the idea of a printed book appears as a trap” (T. T. Williams). Mormon women are counseled to keep a journal, but with the understanding that those words will definitely be read by their progeny. As generations to come read over one’s shoulder, the pressure to record wisdom, diligence, kindness, and humility has to obstruct expression. One of the benefits of writing is its ability to heal us psychologically. Dr. James Pennebaker, author of Writing to Heal explains, “When we translate an experience into language we essentially make the
Williams tells us, “Mother was a private woman, not a silent one. ‘I don’t like people knowing my thoughts’” (T. T. Williams). It makes perfect sense that she would be uncomfortable leaving behind what she kept for herself when she was alive. However, it is curious that she reveals the existence of her blank journals, asking Terry not to read them until she is gone. Consider that by then, no questions can be asked. In a dialogue, answers can end the discussion. Human nature tends to desire them, but soon after, they can be forgotten and left behind. Rarely do we contemplate the cycle of water, a concept we understand well, but we often contemplate the cycle of life and death, a concept that remains mysterious. Perhaps her mother wanted some conversations to continue, and this was a way of ensuring that. Adulthood changes your relationship with a parent, usually providing years of dialogue and companionship that add richness and complexity. Being denied that time, her mother, rather than summarizing complicated issues she knew her daughter might face, decided instead to let Terry think about them, over time, deeply, the way it would have happened if her mother had lived longer. She would have known Terry’s introspective nature, and wisely fed