The agonizing love that Catherine and Heathcliff have for one another is not something that can be easily dealt with. Not all love is healthy, "sometimes people's love for one another is too powerful" (Bronte 45). Just because two people are in love doesn't …show more content…
necessarily mean it's good for them to be together. If someone is caused so much pain, trouble, and confusion by another person that causes their life to turn upside down, that may not be the best person to be with.
During this time society was different.
Having a lot of money, being well dressed, and well behaved were all essential for marriage. Heathcliff strives for "a chance to be as he"( Bronte 56). In this case the he is Edgar. Edgar is the well mannered, well dressed one with money. Those are all characteristics that Catherine was looking for. Although she loves Heathcliff and believed that their love is real, she knew he wasn't right for her in the eyes of society's. This in no way was going to get in the way of Heathcliff trying to be with her. According to both Catherine and Heathcliff they are one and the same. Although she married Edgar, that doesn't mean that was the man she loved; "her love for Heathcliff resembled the eternal rocks beneath"( Bronte Page 82). Heathcliff sees her marrying Edgar as an ultimate betrayal. He looks at it as something that she did just to get back at him for treating her the way that he did. So to get back at her for what she did, he went and married Isabella Linton.
To Catherine, love is not necessarily being with the person that you love most in life. It is being with the person that can take care of you finically, and who has a high place in society. Though she loved Heathcliff with all of her heart, she knew she was meant to be with Edgar. In the end, although death was the only way for it to happen, she ended up with Heathcliff in the
grave