The suitors were men from Ithaca who during Odysseus’ absence, began to court his wife, Penelope. However, they did not wait for Penelope’s answer in their own homes but instead, stayed at the palace as guests. Forcing Penelope to decide which one of them she was to marry, the suitors refused to leave the palace and spent their time slaughtering the sheep and fatted cattle belonging to the estate in order to provide their great parties with food (Greek Mythology Link). There are three basic rules of Xenia: The respect from host to guest, the respect from guest to host, and the parting gift from host to guest. It is also important to know that the guest must be courteous to his host and not be a burden (Wikipedia).The suitors, who were already ill-portrayed by Homer with just some of their names (the lead suitor was named Antinoos, which literally means “No Mind”), were made even more detestable through their actions
Cited: 1.Homer (Translated by Fitzgerald, Robert). The Odyssey. New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 1998. 2.Wikipedia. “Xenia (Greek).” 4 Feb. 2008. 20 Feb. 2008 3.Greek Mythology Link. “Suitors of Penelope.”