A Handful of Dust

Devotion and compassion toward one another, a core reason why many relationships these days work out and last a lifetime. Trusting someone is essential and basically the backbone to all relationships. Evelyn Waugh's A Handful of Dust is a satirical novel that involves the story of Tony Last and his wife, Lady Brenda. Tony is more in love with his house, Hetton Abbey, than with his wife. Brenda, bored with Tony and his apparent desire to live in the past, being the lord of the manor type of person, that she turns her attention to John Beaver, a twenty-five year old socialite. The personalities and character traits of Tony and Brenda contributed to the end of their relationship. Pompousness, conceit and the actions motivated by these traits affected their lives in and outside of their marriage. Tony seems to be empty of any passion except for Hetton Abbey, which is listed in the guidebook. "This, formerly one of the notable house of the country, was entirely rebuilt in 1864 in the Gothic style and is now devoid of interest" (Waugh 13). Nevertheless Hetton's grounds are open to the public and tours are available upon request. The intricate, but gloomy description of Hetton exemplifies the lack of interest to the public. Although, from Tony's perspective, Hetton is magnificent. The very involved description of Hetton, lists the aspects of it that Tony revels in. Aspects such as "the ecclesiastical gloom of the great hall … were a source of constant delight and great exultation to Tony; things of tender memory and proud possession" (Waugh 14). The contrary description of Hetton's guidebook and that of Tony's is obvious. Hetton's guidebook and the public basically mock the house while Tony praises it. Despite everyone's opposition Tony shows little or no care in what others think and justifies his neglect towards others including his wife Brenda. The essence of Brenda is best summed up by Mrs. Northcote who is reading her future through examining the soles of