It is a well known fact that experiencing war changes people; there is an innocence that is forever lost. In Tim O’Brian’s, “Sweetheart of the Song Tra Bong”, Mary Anne Bell is an unusual example of the innocence that is lost in war because unlike the rest of the soldiers, she is a woman. Mary Anne’s transformation from innocent “sweetheart” to fierce warrior left readers with mixed emotions because although Mary Anne felt at peace with her transformation, she was also disconnected from reality.…
Mariam never thinks she’ll be able to love or be loved again. Two decades later, tragedy strikes Laila, when she loses her parents to a local bombing. Laila is crestfallen and miserable as she watches her life fall into shambles, first with her parents’ death and later with that of Tariq’s. The two women also face an abusive husband together. However, they find solace in each other and learn to deal with their pain through friendship and love. Mariam and Laila’s friendship leads them to endure unimaginable brutalities and gives them the strength to overcome their adversities with startling heroism. When Rasheed threatens to kill Laila, Mariam accepts the fate of being his murderer. After killing Rashid, Mariam notes to Laila, “For me, it ends here. There’s nothing more I want, everything I’d ever wished for as a little girl, you’ve given me. You and your children have made me so very happy. It’s alright Laila jo. This is alright. ( 319)”. Mariam’s sacrifice for Laila shows how devoted she is to…
Mariam is highly impacted by death in her childhood. Nana’s suicide is the cause for her young marriage to Rasheed, and rejection from Jalil. Jalil’s rejection helps Mariam understand that Nana was telling the truth about, that Jalil wanted nothing to do with Mariam. Mariam feels like she betrays Nana because she did warn her about leaving. Mariam blames herself for the death of her kids and Nana. Hosseini writes, “She had failed him seven times she had failed him.” (99) Each “failure” is a miscarriage that is not her fault. Mariam is harsh on herself for deaths that are not her fault. She believes that Nana’s death could have been prevented if she would not have left. At one point Mariam says, “I keep thinking of what she said to me before she left.”(43) Nana was always telling Mariam that she was worthless. Mariam thinks that she could have done something…
The novel, Mahtab’s story, by Libby Gleeson, focuses on the many horrific obstacles that the protagonist, Mahtab, and her family face their homeland of Afghanistan as well as the obstacles they face when they flee from Afghanistan in search of a safe and secure home. Some of the hardships they face include: the constant fear and insecurity they experience as a result of living under Taliban rule, the sense of dislocation and alienation they experience as a result of leaving behind loved ones, their possessions, and their culture and the way of life to go to an unknown or unfamiliar place, and the grave uncertainty and insecurity they feel about their futures and loved ones. Despite the enormity of these immense hardships however, Mahtab and her family members, are able to overcome them because they remain resilient and indomitable. Remaining focused on their goal, thinking positively, finding strength in each other and familiar family customs or habits, such as praying, singing, telling soties and counting, are some of the coping mechanisms that Mahtab and her family use which enables them to remain indomitable in the face of her troubles.…
The family relationship Sulieman and Najwa have in the novel displays strong signs of love and compassion, though is not the only bond that displays such deep roots. The mother and son relationship these characters have bring forward a vital sense of concern and care for one another. Many instances in the novel show that although their relationship is distorted at times, due to Najwa becoming ‘ill’ when her husband goes on his…
Throughout the book, Mariam was a strong inspiring character. She lived through his violence day by day. It made me sad, that Rasheed’s violence were based on Mariam’s pregnancy as she has been pregnant seven times, but never been able to carry a child to term.…
Create questions you would ask the author and at least one of the people in the book. Include why you would ask each particular question, and connect the question to a specific event (quote with page #) in the book.…
Hosseini’s depiction of Mariam’s childhood acts a framing part of the novel. The struggles she faces with her illegitimacy follows and emancipates her throughout her life. Mariam was an ‘illegitimate person who would never have legitimate claim to the things over people had, things such as love,…
Throughout this section of the book, it becomes apparent that women represent a relaxing comfort like nothing else, which can make a man feel at home after a long journey. During the war, the periods of downtime from being in the front were almost dreaded, since they “made coming back feel worse.” However, the comforting effect of women allowed a more satisfying break which is obviously reflected by the soldiers attitude of lust and desire towards the females within the…
Maria’s family is one aspect of life she is detached from. Maria is separated from her husband Carter Lang. Together; they have one child named Kate. The fact that Maria and Carter are separated seems to evoke feelings of helplessness for Maria. She is left alone and resorts to memories for comfort. Feelings of vulnerability and constraint seem to be a reoccurring theme in her life. Maria has no control over Kate. Due to medical conditions from birth, Kate must be under constant medical supervision. Living under medical supervision is what is normal for Kate. As a result, Maria is left feeling dismal because there is nothing she can physically do to help her daughter.…
Described the novel as a “gripping, heart-rending story, which explores the depths of despair and savagery beside the heights of love, tenderness and self-sacrifice.”…
Bibliography: Banyard, V., L., & Graham-Bermann, S., A. (1993). Can women cope? A gender analysis of…
The author portrays the experiences of the two Afghan women, Mariam and Laila, who live in a society where women are mistreated. Mariam’s character is described as a quiet and thoughtful girl who questions the society and dreams of a luxurious life. She experiences physical and mental abuse from almost every person in her life and is brought up in an isolated environment by a bitter mother who puts her down. For instance, in the beginning of the novel Nana, Mariam’s mother, says: “You are a clumsy little harami” (Hosseini, 4). This very word “harami” helps the reader to analyze the struggles of an illegitimate child. Nana also prepares Mariam to expect nothing from men: “Like a compass needle that always point north, a man’s accusing finger always finds a woman. Always .... Mariam” (Hosseini, 7). This is also used to foreshadow Mariam’s husband, Rasheed, a cruel, abusive and hot tempered man, who physically and verbally abuses Mariam after marriage.…
A system is a set of interrelated parts. Systems theory assumes that a system must be understood as a whole, rather than in component parts. It is a way of looking at the world where all the objects are interrelated with one another. Many family systems are addressed in the movie Little Miss Sunshine.…
Thus, the author highlights that such case of madness is not singular to one woman but to many and all women. All women, being under the control of their husbands, powerless to change the circumstances, grieve silently and undergo despair. The main character does not have a name, as it is a general image of all oppressed…