In the short story, "Two Ways to Belong in America", Bharati tells that there are two ways to belong in America. The first one is belonging legally. To belong legally you either have a green card, or you are a citizen. The other way is to fit in with society, and to feel as if you belong. Bharati is an American citizen, and married outside of her culture. She was prepared for this and was ready for the emotional strain. Mira had only a green card, and married an Indian student in 1962. Mira has become nationally recognized for her contributions in the fields of pre-school education and parent teacher relationships. After 36 years as a legal immigrant in this country, she clings passionately to her Indian citizenship and hopes to go home to India when she retires. This shows how both of the sisters have different views on their lifestyles.…
In “Two Ways to Belong in America,” Bharati Mukherjee writes about her struggles self-identifying while being an immigrant in America from Calcutta, India, accompanied with her sister by her side. Bharati and her sister move to America to attend college and get jobs with their degrees. While both sister agreed to return to India when done, they both took different routes. Mira married an Indian man she met in college, had her job of a preschool teacher which she loved dearly, and stuck to her Indian roots. Bharati married a Canadian American and embraced the American culture that she ended up loving more so than her Indian roots.…
The two short stories, “The Tenant” by Mukherjee and “The Red Sweater” by Ng bear many similarities as well as differences. The authors of these two stories go about conveying basically the same message, however, with a slight variety. In these short stories, Mukherjee and Ng go into detail of the lives of two young women struggling with their identities as immigrants in the American culture. This clashing of cultures, predominantly the Asian culture (in these cases), against the American culture, is the central idea that one may conclude after reading these two short stories. Mukherjee and Ng both share or differ in the three literary elements of plot, theme, and characters in portraying the consequences of this culture clash.…
of a family that immigrated to America from India and it keeps the readers wondering…
America is still the Promised Land to millions of immigrants. They are from all over the world and do everything to make their way to the United States of America. Nonetheless, once in the USA, the immigrants experience a process of Americanization or the adoption of the American values and customs for the goal of becoming a member of the U.S.A. international mosaic. Most of these immigrants have difficulty integrating into the U.S. society because their own cultural baggage, frames of references and convictions do prevent them from effectively taking on the new culture. The two stories, "Saving Sourdi" by May-Lee Chai and “Clothes” by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni, are about becoming Americanized through women’s rights and arranged marriages.…
In Bharati short story “two ways to belong to America” she talks and her and her sister experience as first time immigrants migrating from India to America. At their arrival to America they were similar in a lot of ways, appearance and attitudes-views and sentiments. They were both seeking degrees-Mira in child psychology and pre-school education, bharati went on to peruse a degree in creative writing. After they obtained their degree’s they were to return to India and marry, a man of their fathers choosing.…
In Bharati Mukherjee’s personal essay, “Two Ways to Belong in America,” she talks about the ups and downs of the American culture from her and her sister, Mira's, experiences. Since Bharati is more adaptive to the "American way of life," she really doesn't mind the…
I anticipate that the purpose of writing this book is to let the readers comprehend what it is to immigrate from across the universe. The risk that an immigrant has to put up with in order to achieve their goal. Although having to leave your family, risking your life, and having to handle the humiliation, at the end there is always a healthier opportunity, a brighter future; and that is what Bharati is trying to tell the readers. It is a way of demonstrating us to never lose hope. Bharati is trying to create a point that we immigrate to America because we have American dreams; trying to escape a world of war.…
The Queen’s wrath he kept saying as we flew from the Queen’s grim, dismal, displeasurable for anyone who enters with bad notice, unwelcoming castle. Why he kept saying that repetitively I don’t know while flying the Queen’s black dragon. That could almost represent a black hole that light couldn’t go through, and the dragon's scales every time it took a breath would open up a glow of green as like if it was irritated blood. I asked the man his name he says with a murmur voice “The Queen’s wrath”. Since he said it so many times it repetitions in my mind as if I’m studying for a grammar test constantly. I then demanded him say where were we heading in a instance we divebomb to the ground with a swift, headlong straight into a rebel camp. With…
“By choosing a husband who was not my fathers selection, I was opting… and renouncing 3,000 years (atleast) of caste observant ‘pure culture’ marriage in the Mukherjee family”(Muhkerjee89). Even though she was born and raised an Indian she did not want to choose the traditional Indian spouse. In contrast, her sister Mira even after becoming an American citizen was still attached to her Indian descent. “After 36 years as a legal immigrant in this country, she clings passionately to her Indian citizenship and hopes to go home to India when she retires”(Mukherjee89). So even after being here for a while, nothing influenced her to change just because she was in a different environment. It was her choice to stay the…
Living in a new country can have its share of difficulties, but at the same time provide insights into a whole new culture. India is known as the melting point of different cultures, each one unique in its own respect from the art, food, religion, language, lifestyle and politics. When I was 15 years old, my father, who is an accountant by profession, accepted a job offer to work for KPMG India. The KPMG branch was located in Bangalore. My parents, originally from Bangalore, moved to Canada in the 1980’s. They were thrilled by the opportunity to visit India and my relatives after a very long time. However, the case of leaving all my high school friends, the food, entertainment and lifestyle behind and moving to country I had left behind when I was 2 years old, was…
Many of this challenge include language barriers, employment, transportation issues, the weather, prejudice and racism and much more but the one problem is the cultural difference. This can range from social customs to more substantial issues such as attitudes towards gender, religious diversity, ethnicity, and sexuality. The idea of social custom clearly shows in “A Father” when Mr. Bhowmick finds out that his daughter Babli was pregnant without a husband or a boyfriend. Babli is, in fact, pregnant by induced pregnancy. Mr. Bhowmick becomes every angry because induced pregnancy is not part of his traditional views and custom. This does not mean that she ignoring her Indian backgrounds but she is moving on with her life in a manner she wanted and not the way her father wanted. This show that the modern world and the traditional world of living cause controversies in the family and the way of progress in…
My husband (TJ) should have been a stand-up comedian. For the past 28 years, my man has made me belly laugh every single day with the most shocking and funniest comments one could imagine. I come from an extra-large family that always has 30 plus people at every gathering. My hubby has a large, captive audience that always ends up in tears, crying, from the outlandish subject matter that he tackles.…
In the short story “Silver Pavements, Golden Roofs”, the author Chitra Divakaruni highlights and enhances the theme of how Jayanti’s high class and wealthy background sets her up for high expectations of living the American Dream but later on disappoint her. Jayanti’s mindset initially presents an optimistic future and more idealistic view of America, but upon her arrival this idealistic view slowly begins to deteriorate by her uncle’s view of America. This idea raises the question of how does Jayanti’s uncle effect her view of America in terms of what she thought America would be and how it actually is? By analyzing Jayanti’s impressions of and interactions with her uncle, I will prove how Jayanti’s high expectations of America are later on let down by her uncle’s substandard way of living life. Jayanti has a more hopeful and promising attitude towards America, while her uncle is more cynical and hopeless towards the life he currently lives due to the different experiences they have while being in America. This causes confusion towards Jayanti’s high expectations. Jayanti is so young and inexperienced with exciting dreams but she does not fully understand her uncle’s dismal actions because he has been in America for longer and he has been trying to build himself yet he still is not living the American Dream.…
Living in America has its pros and cons. My parents packed up everything and moved to America so me and my brother could have a better life. Knowing this I struggle to come to terms with both my parents leaving everything they know and love for us. It's daunting in a way. Their hearts will always be in India, with their families. Knowing this me and my brother have even more reason to do something great with our life’s.…