Being raised in a Roman Catholic household, I can tell you when it comes to forgiveness I was taught to do the Christian thing. As hard is it might be, I should find it in my heart to forgive those who have hurt me, whether they ask for forgiveness or not. What I had never pondered is the chance that someone might ask me forgiveness for something wrong they have done to someone else. Do I have the right to put them at ease or offer forgiveness? In the book The Sunflower, Simon Wiesenthal, a man who had watched countless of innocent Jews like himself be murdered because of sheer hate, shares his unique story. One that has made me think about the way I view, and use forgiveness.…
There are many different situations to decide of whether a person should forgive or not. From lying to blackmail to murder. In the article, It’s For You to Know That You Forgive, Says Holocaust Survivor, Eva Kor speaks of what happened to her family and her sister and goes up to trial against a former Nazi at the end of the trial the former Nazi hugs and kisses Kor and she manages to forgive him following after the events in an interview she says, “when a victim chooses to forgive, they take the power back from their tormentors”. Forgiving is not giving them power, it's not obliterating someones terrible actions; it's simply a coping mechanism and a way to set a person free in their…
In the novel “Baygirl” by Heather Smith, the theme is that there is always room for forgiveness. Kit forgave her father even after everything he did and made her go through. Kit forgave her mother for her errors. And many people who Kit knew made mistakes and still she forgave every single one of them. If Kit can forgive all of these people in her life, I’m sure we can forgive many people as well. Kit’s example proves that forgiveness isn’t impossible, even to the hardest and most hurtful…
When Immaculee was hiding in the minister's bathroom, she dedicated her time to God. She prayed every minute of every day. She dedicated herself to reading the bible front to cover. Immaculee prayed to God to have forgiveness throughout this tough time in her life. She encountered killers face to face, she prayed for her life and she got out of that situation.…
Emmett Till was an African American boy born on July 25, 1941 in Webb, Mississippi. When he was two years old, his family and he moved to Illinois, Chicago. He practically grew up with his mother, Mamie Carthan Till; she had separated from his father in 1942. Now, keep in mind that during this era, segregation was still present in some states although the Brown V. Board of Education ruled segregation in public schools unconstitutional in 1954. However, the court ruling did not stop de facto—African Americans sitting down in the back of the bus, stepping down to the street if a white man was walking on the sidewalk, or having separate facilities such as bathrooms and restaurants.…
Undaunted Courage is a very detailed account of what Ambrose considers the most important expedition in American history, Lewis and Clark's exploration of the west. Ambrose attempts to project Thomas Jefferson's vision of a country that stretches from sea to shining sea, of an open road to the west, of an "Empire of Liberty". Ambrose repeatedly shows how important the expedition was to the United States and especially to Thomas Jefferson by giving examples of the powers given to Lewis by Jefferson in order to complete the expedition. Lewis is given a letter of credit signed by Thomas Jefferson…
The Sunflower, by Simon Wiesenthal, was an intriguing and thought –provoking novel that raised many questions on the theological and moral concept of forgiveness. Furthermore, it delved into the matter of whether an individual has the right to forgive in the name of others, or whether forgiveness of the perpetrator was even deserved in the first place. The narrative is told from the first person point of view of Simon Wiesenthal, a young man in his 30s, imprisoned in a work camp. He tells his story of a dying Nazi’s plea for forgiveness and his own subsequent actions. After we hear his story, we can read the opinions of many individuals that tell what they would have done in Simon’s place, and add their own insights into the discussion. Before we delve into the specifics of what I would have done in Simon’s place, and which contributor I can relate to most, I would like to discuss the concept of forgiveness, and what it means to me.…
Mistakes are inevitable and sometimes these mistakes we make bring hurt onto others. Everyone has been deeply hurt at some point in their lives, possibly though a friend, a family member, or maybe even a cheating partner. How can we allow ourselves to forgive these people for all the hurt they have caused us? Wiesenthal is a Jewish victim in a Nazi concentration camp In The Sunflower who becomes forced to decide if a dying SS solider deserves his forgiveness. In the end, Wiesenthal invites us to think about what we would have done in his situation. Although I cannot question another person's choice on forgiveness, (especially since I was not there to experience the pain that the Jews felt during the Holocaust) I do believe that everyone should learn to forgive and to continue their lives in emotional freedom.…
While Immaculée is in the Pastor’s bathroom, she hears evil chants coming from the devil and Hutus. She is frightened along with everyone with her. This is when she prays to God asking for strength to be keep the hatred out of her for the Hutus, when she says “ Though a thousand fall at my side, thought ten thousand are dying around me, the evil will not touch me.” (Ilibagiza 101) She is trusting in God more and gaining hope from his protection over her that she knows she will survive with God at her side. Elie is different from Immaculée because he struggles having hope and trusting in God, he still has hope just in a different way. He gains hope when he hears bombs in the distance and rumors says the Russians are coming. His hope is shown when he says “ How close the Russians were! Between them and us - one night- our last.” He has hope to push through the night and hope the Russians will save him. One more way Immaculée shows hope is when she faints due to be overwhelm with the killers and the devil calling her name, while she had blacked out God pulled her into a spiritual realm with him and says “ I shall put my cross upon this door, and they will not reach you, trust in me and you shall live.” After this Immaculée has this vision with God her sky rockets and she knows that she will live with God because he is on her…
Forgiveness is a superior moral trait and has great reward for the one who forgives. Forgiveness is one of the moral traits recommended in the Quran: Hold to forgiveness, command what is right, and turn away from the ignorant. (Qur'an, 7: 199).In another verse Allah commands: "They should rather pardon and overlook. Would you not love Allah to forgive you? Allah is Ever-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (Qur'an, 24:22) Those who do not abide by the moral values God has commanded find it very difficult to forgive others. Because, they are easily angered by any error committed. God knows that forgiveness is not a very easy thing to do and sometimes it is very hard, that is why HE has declared it as a very superior deed. “The repayment of a bad action is one equivalent to it. But if someone pardons and puts things right, his reward is with Allah” (Qur'an, 42:40).…
I never really understood the meaning of forgiveness. When people hurt me or treat me badly I always thought the best way to handle it is to hold it in. I never showed anger on the outside but just kept it all in. Instead, I let it boil inside of me. My kind act toward those who hurt me was a shield from my pain. Most of my kind act was at my mother. I blamed my birth mother for every relationship I have ever been in that ended with my hurting the guy or me thinking I am just going to be like my mother and leave him for the next person. Over the years, her actions and mishaps became the victim for my own actions. The fact that I have not yet become a divorcee like her was justification for her being irresponsible, dishonest, and ungrateful. Throughout the years of struggle, dysfunctional relationships, and little to no relationship, I hardly took responsibility for anything that I had done. I laid all my relationship troubles on my birth mother. I call her my birth mother because I never grew up with her but I have met her from time to time. She gave me to my dad when I was seven years old because of another man. I blame my relationship trouble on her because she never had a solid relationship for me to learn from. She…
In The Crucible, by Arthur Miller, one of the main themes is forgiving others. When you forgive others, you free yourself from more hurt. And God commands it.…
What is courage? Courage is mental or moral strength to venture, persevere, and withstand danger, fear, or difficulty. In the story “To Kill a Mockingbird” written by Harper Lee there is three character that show courage. These characters are Atticus, Boo Radley and Mrs. Dubose.…
Further reading of Harry James Cargas continues that forgiveness can help lead evil along yet also examines the benefits of forgiveness and how the act of forgiving is often misunderstood even my the forgiver. Cargas's opening statement is what really compelled my answer; “I am afraid not to forgive because I fear not to be…
Forgiveness by the World English Dictionary is the “act of forgiving; state of being forgiven, disposition or willingness to forgive”. But what does it really mean? That is my question. Is being able to forgive and not forget the same thing? In my life, I have found that true forgiveness is a quality that separates us from other species and it is what makes us human. In order to truly and sincerely forgive, one must, aside from saying they have forgiven the person, let it go and not hold a grudge against that person. Just, as Mahatma Gandhi once said: “The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." I believe that holds to be true.…