Attending Skills The attending cluster consist of the following Skills: A Posture of Involvment Appropriate Body Motion Eye Contact Creating a Nondistrcting Enviroment Bolton‚ in his book People Skills (1979)‚ describes attending as giving all of your physical attention to another person. The process of attending‚ whether you realize it or not‚ has a considerable impact on the quality of communication that goes on between two people. For example‚ by attending you are saying to the other person
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Stages of an interview Interviews require the use of skills – for example‚ careful listening‚ noting nonverbal cues‚ monitoring the progress of what a client is saying while participating and taking notes‚ and require careful planning and preparation. A counselling interview (taken from ICCS Diploma of Counselling Participants’ manual) is structured by a number of phases in the session. They are: * Phase 1- Arrival (5 mins) * Phase 2- Connecting (10 mins) * Phase 3- Exploring the client’s
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The counselling process is based on the exchange of emotions between the client and the counsellor which aims to form an alliance (Hough‚ 1998). It involves the counsellor using skills in which they possess in order to communicate effectively with clients (Hough‚ 1998). This reflective essay clearly articulates my application of counselling skills used in this practice session and suggestions for improvement. It will provide a summary of the session‚ identification of a range of skills used and a
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self-reflection of counselling skills The purpose of this essay is describing the counselling practices that I did in my class room. I n this reflective essay‚ I will describe the style of counselling that I used so far ‚ the actions I had taken‚ the area of skills where I need further improvement‚ my perception about the feedbacks from other students and faculty supervisor . By discussing this particular experience in detail‚ I can start to aware of the specific skills and technique which counsellor
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self in using a counselling approach. People who experience troubles can receive help for their problems in both formal and informal ways. An informal helping relationship can be as simple as a chat with a friend while offering advice and support. The counselling approach differs considerably form formal counselling which this essay will discuss. An informal helping relationship may involve counselling skills such as displaying good eye contact and body language‚ listening‚ summarising and
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The aims of this assignment are to explore where I am in relation to counselling skills and to show evidence that I have started to identify and reflect on my own strengths and weaknesses in relation to using counselling skills. I will first look at the counselling skill inventory and give a brief overview of which skills I feel most comfortable using and which I find more challenging‚ I will then go on to discuss in detail 3 skills that I wish to focus on and develop more during my course. In writing
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Counselling provides the opportunity for a person to express their thoughts and feelings in an environment that is different from their daily life. There may be a need to engage in a conversation where a person can receive feedback and a different perspective on the issues that they are dealing with in a non-judgemental and safe environment‚ McLeod (2007). In a recent counselling session‚ where I was the counsellor‚ I was invited to share the feelings and experience of my client who had some unpleasant
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is a skill and an attitude and not a feeling (sympathy is a feeling). It is about being able and willing to understand another person from their own point of view‚ without your own thoughts‚ feelings‚ opinions and judgements getting in the way of this understanding. This can be difficult if you have a strong reaction to someone‚ or if you disagree with what they are saying‚ or if you have had a similar experience and feel you could give some helpful advice. Empathy is essential in counselling because
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DEVELOPING A LISTENING SKILL AND SPEAKING SKILL ACTIVITY DESCRIBE THE TWO INFORMATION GAP ACTIVITIES LISTENING SKILL Listening skills are very important in everyday life. One must understand what people are saying and what is happening around them. In order for this to be done effectively‚ one must be an active listener. This is achieved when the listener is listening for meaning; when the listener checks if the statement has been heard and understood correctly. The goal of this is to improve
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Reflection Paper‚ Listening Skills Davenport University MGMT535 4/7/2013 When it really comes down to listening‚ individuals are so self-absorbed that they fail to effectively listen to what others have to say. Listening is not just being able to hear what was said‚ it also involves the ability to understand the information being presented by the person communicating known as the speaker. Listening can be broken down into visualizing and feeling what the other person is experiencing when
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