In “Where Are You Going‚ Where Have You Been?” Connie is trying really hard to be an adult. Part of being an adult for her‚ involves having men be sexually attracted to her. However‚ there is just one problem. Connie is still a teenager‚ therefore she remains dependent on adults and her family. Despite the constraints of still being a child for all intents and purposes‚ Connie does her best to assert her independence and being adult. Connie actually works pretty hard on trying to show that she
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In Joyce Carol Oates’s short story‚ “Where Are You Going‚ Where Have You Been?” (1966)‚ Connie is an adolescent that faces literal and psychological challenges. Within the conflicts of the story‚ there are two compelling questions that allow you to take a special interest of a deeper meaning. Taken from the title‚ where has Connie been? Where is Connie going? In a surprising twist‚ the story is not only about a naïve girl that gets lured out of her home by an older gentleman‚ but can also be taken
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You Are What You Wear Research Paper Sarah Griffin B6 Our assignment was to dress up a day and to dress down a day. I participated in the activity. I dressed up on Friday the 14th‚ and dressed down the following day (Saturday the 15th). We’ll start with the day I dressed up. I liked it because I felt good and was‚ for the most part‚ sure about my appearance. People told me I looked nice and that made me confident. I also disliked it because I hardly ever do that‚ so I felt superficial
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You Are What You Wear Whoever said “clothes make a man” had the right idea about people perceive each other on the first look. Whether you like it or not‚ a big part of the first impression that we make when you meet someone depends on how you look – which is basically how you’re dressed. Looking good is an obsession with people these days. We love to keep up on the latest trends and make sure we’re sporting the latest fashion. Just take a look around you. Bangalis seem to be really catching
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Kozlowski English 1B September 28‚ 2014 Where Are you Going‚ Where HaveYou Been? Analysis “Where Are you Going‚ Where Have You Been? Is a short story by Joyce Carol Oates about a fifteen year old girl’s that lives a dual life for self-importance‚ an unforgiving desire for irresponsibility‚ yet doubtfulness to leave the security of family and the comfort ‘of sleeping on her bed again’ ( Oates 77) . Connie is a young girl that likes listening to music ‘that made everything so good” (Oates 66) and watching
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The ambiguous resolutions of Where Are You Going Where Have You Been and The Night Rhonda Ferguson Was Killed is a coincidence that I found quite strange. In Where Are You Going Where Have You Been‚ the author doesn’t tell us what happens to Connie after Arnold Friend forces her to go with him. Does she die? Does she Live? Similarly‚ the Night Rhonda Ferguson Was Killed‚ the answer as to how Casandra will manage to overcome her friend’s sudden death and her life’s struggles remains to be open to
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What Makes Me Stronger “What doesn’t kill you will only make you stronger.” I’ve heard that a million times and it couldn’t be truer. Everyone goes through something at some point in their life: Financial issues‚ psychological issues caused by different experiences‚ self esteem‚ abandonment‚ molestation‚ etc. Well I’ve been through it all. I didn’t start going through financial issues until later on in life. In my opinion‚ that’s the worse time because that’s when you have greater needs. For a
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If I overvalue results‚ a task done correctly will not be as high a priority as it was if I gave adequate attention. By overpraising such tasks‚ the group may believe that the person in charge may be using sarcasm. When a task is not done well‚ a harsh criticism may seem more condescending then it actually is. 2) In the beginning‚ I valued relationships more because I wanted to feel accepted by others and make friends. As I have progressed‚ I have become more focused on results. At this moment
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my life would take a dramatic turn from what it is now. I would adopt the lifestyle of the rich and famous. There are lots of things I would do with the money. Firstly‚ before I use the money at all‚ I would give away ten percent to charity. Ten percent of RM1 million works out to RM100‚000. This is a lot of money to give away. It does not mean that I am a generous or saintly person. It simply means that when we get good luck‚ we must thank God by giving some money to charity. I would share the
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In her short story‚ “Where are you going where have you been?” Joyce Carol Oates describes the emotional ride of a fifteen year old girl‚ on the verge of becoming an adult and losing her innocence of mind and body along the way. She has a difficult time growing up and developing her own personality as they would have her react to her circumstances.“Everything about her bad two side to it‚ one for Home and one for anywhere that was not Home.” Connie feels that the best attribute that a girl can have
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