and behavioral condition affecting one’s ability to have a mutually satisfying and healthy relationship. People who are affected by co-dependency often form and maintain relationships that are emotionally destructive. That may lead them into a relationship addiction‚ the familiar‚ painful cycle of attraction‚ bonding‚ panic‚ reconciliation‚ and rejection characterizes this serious addiction. The readers of “Where Are You Going‚ Where Have You Been” by Joyce Carol Oates envision several traits in Connie
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In the short story “Where Are You Going‚ Where Have You Been” by Joyce Carol Oates there is bad parenting and it costs Connie at the end. Throughout the entire story there is little or no parenting‚ or sometimes there is a little parenting but it is not very good parenting. For example‚ “their father was away at work most of the time and when he came home‚ he wanted supper and he read the newspaper at supper and after supper he went to bed. He didn’t bother talking much to them” (Oates 1). So even
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Carol Oates captured more than just the reader when she wrote the story‚ “Where Are You Going‚ Where Have You Been.” Oates recreates an event that took place in the mid-1960s‚ where a grown man‚ who had shaggy black hair and a boyish charm‚ would lure teenage girls into his car‚ rape and murder them‚ and then bury their bodies in the desert. The fate of the main character in “Where Are You Going‚ Where Have You Been” lies between Oates’s wavering suspense. From the beginning Oates shows the reader
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purchasers in a hot real estate market is writing a homebuyer’s letter to a seller. It is not simple to compose a letter that is engaging and personal to convince the receiver that he or she should give the home to you and not someone else. Today‚ it is always getting harder to win a bidding war. Persons who require financing and about sixty six percent of all home buyers do as well as those with smaller down payments frequently have trouble competing with all-cash buyers‚ who are able to lure sellers
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well back home. I miss you both dearly. I have been contemplating how to break some news to you about my position during these tough times. I am deeply sorry to put such a burden on you both‚ but I am now in the position to fight against the British. The other night‚ I attended the House of Burgesses to hear a patriot named Patrick Henry speak. Let me tell you if you were to hear this man speak and the points he made‚ you too would be persuaded into fighting the British. You cannot deny Henry’s moral
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What should you do if you suspect abuse. If a person does not tell you but you suspect that they are being abused‚ you need to tell your manager You may want to talk to the person before you contact the relevent authorities. If you do this‚ bring the subject up sensitively by letting the person know that you are concerned about them and want to support them. Listen to them without being impatient or critical of them or their actions. Letting them talk and share their concerns is very important
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In‚ “Where Are You Going‚ Where Have You Been?” Joyce Carol Oates shares a story about a fifteen-year-old girl named Connie who encounters Arnold Friend‚ a predator whose first words to Connie are‚ “Gonna get you‚ baby” (Oates). One day‚ while Connie is home alone‚ she receives an unexpected visitor from the mysterious boy she saw the other night while hanging out with friends. The mysterious boy introduces himself as Arnold Friend and tries to persuade Connie to take a ride
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might not have much meaning to you at this point ... Well‚ Phuong‚ I guess this is goodbye. And I hope you will one day understand. You’ve got so many friends now. and you aren’t stopping at any rate making more friends in the TF2 scene. Even Edy likes you. You don’t need me anymore. I think now is my time to go finally. I’ve sold my Unusuals on marketplace.tf. The things I have left in my inventory will just die with me I guess. I sent you my unusual sniper rifle‚ since once upon a time you always
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FORMAL LETTERS Instructions 1. Choose formal 8 1/2-by-11 inch stationery with a matching envelope. The paper should be a neutral color such as white‚ cream or beige. Avoid stationery with bright colors or distracting graphic elements. If the letter is for businesses purposes‚ use company letterhead. 2. Include your return address in the top-right corner of the letter. Add the recipient’s address on the left of the page just below the return address. 3. Skip two lines and write the date. Be
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Where Are You Going‚ Where Have You Been Analysis The story “Where Are You Going‚ Where Have You Been” written by Joyce Carol Oates has a different‚ yet catching title. The title plays strongly into the characters. One of the main character Connie really relates to the title. Her mom wants her to be this perfect little girl‚ whereas Connie likes the attention of guys and to be a little more on the rebel lifestyle. Connie never tells her mom “where she is going‚ or where she has been” when she
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