I started to think that this guy was just excessively neat, but always felt uncomfortable because I didn 't want to mess anything up in his place. Whenever we sat down at a table in a restaurant he would straighten out the condiments aligning the salt and pepper shakers and also, position his napkin and fork just so. He had a lot of good qualities so I overlooked this annoying behavior and tried to concentrate on his positive attributes. As we grew closer and talked more on the phone, I would often ask "What are you doing!" He inevitably answered, "Cleaning!" I
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