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Abuse and Proper Discipline
Hennig 1
Charlene Hennig
Professor Hinton
ENC 1101-59961
August 28, 2014 I have experienced many things in my life. All of my life experiences have affected me in different ways. Some experiences were good and some were not. The physical abuse I experienced by my father was the most impactful experience. A parent is supposed to create a safe, stable, and loving home. Instead my father created a home of fear, instability, and inconsistency. This affected my behavior in school, and how I react to things later in life.
I was born in Florida. At the age of two my father moved me and my three brothers to New York. At this time my mother was not in the picture for unknown reasons. My father was avid alcoholic, and drank a lot. During his drunken rages he would abuse me and my three brothers. My father moved us around a lot, and we never really stayed in one place for very long. I was never quite sure why this was, but I would guess that maybe someone or somebody became suspicious of what was taking place in our home. This resulted in us taking off before anyone could find out for sure. My father started beating us while he was drunk, but then eventually started abusing us while he was sober. It became a regular thing for us and almost expected. He would start to hit us based on his moods. If he had a bad day at work, or had a fight with one of his girlfriends. He would choke us, punch us, throw us, and has even gone as far as burn my brother’s arm on the stove. There were times that we did not eat for days. It was not because we did not have any food, but because he wanted to punish us. He also kicked us out of the house, and made us sleep outside. Even in the winter. I was terrified of my father. Instead of Hennig 2 growing up feeling love and trust. I grew up feeling

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