In the article “Jackie Rayos-Garcia Tells About the Deportation of Her Mother, Guadalupe García de Rayos” it tells the story of a family getting torn apart and not knowing whether or not they’ll ever see each other once again. It is an amazing story, telling the readers how hard it can be to lose a parent at a young age. The struggles one faces for being an immigrant is such a touching story, and the fear immigrants face everyday in their lives trying to hide where they come from and what they are afraid…
In most Hispanic families, the father is head of the household (ohioline) just as in Fiesta. The father is the one who does most of the discipline and pretty much gives the orders around the home. The mother is mostly responsible for raising the children and taking care of the house (ohioline). Just like in the story the father told everyone how things were going to be done and the mother took care of the kids, cleaned, and cooked supper. Everyone in the family has a moral responsibility to help one another. In…
uses Enrique’s story to present the negative long term effect immigration has on family. For…
Anzaldua identifies how La Virgen de Guadalupe has had her impact in history. In Mexican history, she is said to have helped with the freedom of Mexico from Spain. In Roman history, she was named “Mother of God”. She was an enduring figure to the Indians during times of mass suffering and “near genocide”. And today, in many places she is recognized as more important that god. Although Chicanos /Mexicans may have identify barriers, the one thing that is undeniable about who they are, is the impact and importance that La Virgen de Guadalupe has had on them. Moreover, La Virgen de Guadalupe is acknowledged regardless of race, language and religion. She is an essence of Mexican culture and an important figure in history. “Nuestra abogaga siempre seras/Our mediatrix you will always be…La Virgen de Guadalupe is the of ethnic identity and of the tolerance for ambiguity that Chicanos-Mexicanos, people of mixed race, people who have Indian blood, people who cross cultures, by necessity possess” (Anzaldua, 47). Culture and religion are two components of life that are understood and are important in all racial groups among the world. Religion, since antiquated times, has served as a positive outlet, especially during…
|Prompt: To What Extent is the Family Important in Latino Culture and How is This Demonstrated in the Literature by Hispanic Writers? |…
While many families of different cultures often share common characteristics and customs, the history and culture of the Hispanic family is significantly different from the typical American family. For example, it is common for multiple generations of a Hispanic family to live under one roof, while in American culture; it is typically just the parents and the children. In addition, when a female of Hispanic descent reaches the age of 15, she is considered an adult and a formal celebration called a quinceanera is held in her honor. On birthdays for Hispanic children, the parents hang up piñatas in the trees and challenge their children try to break it open with a stick blindfolded. Holidays and traditions also can be very diverse. A typical American family observes…
IOne of the methods straight edge women used as a resistance mechanism was by “refusing to prove their femininity” as a method to align themselves more with the superior and larger population of men (Haenfler 149). By adopting more of a masculine appearance and attitude, this is how the women aimed to set themselves apart from mainstream society. Rejecting one’s gender role expectations is what these women should have focused on rather than rejecting their gender identity completely. Marilyn Monroe embraced her sexuality and beauty to become one of the most confident, idealized women of her time. In fact, Monroe’s ability to showcase her womanhood and graceful attitude is how she began her career (“Marilyn”). Straight edge women would…
“Patricia deja de comer comida en la calle, para eso cocino.” These are words that I constantly hear from my mother whenever I eat outside of the house. My mother is a strict Dominican mother who believes that food from the streets will make me sick or gain weight in an unhealthy way. In the story We’re Not by Andrea Roman, author mentions that her parents could not understand certain unacceptable actions in their culture were acceptable to practice in the United States. My mother is a person who I believe does not understand that neither. Most of our latino parents want to follow and continue to contribute to their culture traditions and beliefs. Sometimes they just make it hard for us to understand, just like the author of the book does not…
The setting of the story “Woman Hollering Creek” reveals that women in Texas and Mexico are looked down upon and often mistreated. In the story, women in Mexico are seen as inferior once in the United States due to the lack of English spoken. The setting of the story reveals that the towns “are built so that you have to depend on husbands. Or you have to stay home.” (Cisneros 54). This reveals that women are expected to do the basic “womanly” chores. Such as clean, cook, and care for children. Cleofilas comes to find that she has no community support, no friends to console to, and lacks independence. In Mexico, Cleofilas has countless opportunities. She has a community that will support her, a family, and the sole belief in God. In the United…
In the article “But Can She Cook?’ Family Expectations Weigh Heavily on Latina Students”, Ines Pinto Alicea reports the experiences with gender expectations that are encountered by many Latina students while attending college. It also shows how heavily influenced Hispanic women are by their family and husbands to portray this imagine of what a traditional Latino woman should be. The study conducted by Dr. Lois Mendez-Catlin on a few hundred Latina students showed the amount of pressure Latinas face while in college. They are encouraged to attend college and follow their dreams but are also expected to take on the role of homemakers after graduation. Hispanic culture traditionally is associated with distinct gender roles for men and women. Alicea mentions how reserved and compromising Latina students are because they are taught to be silent. While some women who spoke out where lashed at by the Latino men who thought they were disobeying their traditional roles. Latina students also faced stereotyping in college where they felt unsupported by staff that thought it would take them much longer to graduate than the majority students. It is obvious that family is extremely important in providing these women a sense of belonging and encouragement. Furthermore, Alicea discusses the importance of showing Latina women a path they can follow from offering a mentoring program.…
Patriarchic society preserves female inferiority by instilling feelings of self-hatred into women. The beginning of the chapter addresses this self hatred, “If somebody would have asked me when I was a teenager what it means to be Chicana, I would probably have listed the grievances done me” (38). Since teenagers are often in search of their identity, it is of particular significance that as a teenager, Moraga would have listed the grievances done to her as a way of explaining her identity. The word ‘grievances’ connotes harm, wrongdoing, distress, burden, and suffering; these inflictions, coupled with the powerlessness and passivity the female feels as the “grievances are done [to her]” foster anger and resentment, which metamorphoses into self-hatred.…
Cultural conflict as a Hispanic American female is fueled by multiple complex variables. For a typical Hispanic girl living in America the choice of food, clothing, customs, and beliefs are fueled by family traditions and often twisted by American media. Traditional Hispanic girls, speak Spanish, eat Puerto Rican food, confess their sins to a priest every Saturday and going to their church every Sunday. The environment of the tropics inspire colors of clothing while the climate impacts that amount of skin that is often shown. In many ways, traditional Hispanic culture is very strict in terms of how a young girl should behave. Traditional Hispanic females are expected to be unpretentious, to dress modestly, and in every circumstance show respect and honor the family. The misconceptions that society often holds with respect to Hispanic culture and women in particular stem in part from wide range of socio, cultural, and environmental differences. Never the less, the misconceptions and stereotypes that surround Hispanic females have long ranging impacts that are emotional, social, financial, and political in nature.…
expresses strong cultural values as a Latino woman. She identified her step mom as a White American. Although she said that she currently have a good relationship with her stepmom now, she did however, disclose that during her middle and high school years she was mischievous and bitter toward her stepmom. She mentions that because her dad was always working, there was a cut down on custody time and felt as though her dad chose her stepmom over her and her sister. She also mentions that she was kicked out of her dad’s and stepmom’s house when she was 18-years-old. She discuss that even though her White American stepmom did not teach her how to make enchiladas, she did however learn how to bake cakes and pies because of her…
Now this means that they are not the only ones who are out supporting the family. Hispanics place elders in a higher status. I think this is because they have been around for longer and have had much more experience dealing with life situations. The youth look up to them for advice, and have great respect for them too. People of Hispanic backgrounds also believe that the individual deserves personal one on one attention. Children are what confirm a marriage. The relationship that the parent creates with the child is pretty much put in front of the marital relationship between the parents. The boys are cherished and the girls are protected. The mother is the one to teach her son that he is to become the provider and will then also have to protect his family. Negative emotions are unacceptable in the traditional Hispanic family. Out of respect, they do not put their personal problems out in the air. Of course this presents a problem psychologically. They are taught not to express negative emotions or to disagree, which could in the long run, create some psychological problems. As far as religion, most Hispanics practice the Catholic religion. The church is the main point for both social and inspirational occurrences. Prayer is also a large part of their everyday life. They turn to God for many things such as illness, celebration, and even mourning. Families from the Middle…
I chose to look at the Hispanic culture. Hispanic families put the utmost importance on family. This means they support each other in any way they can financially, emotionally, and socially. Hispanic families tend to be very close and care more about the whole then the individual; older siblings will often take care of the younger ones. In Hispanic families, the males tend to take on the role of authority with the eldest in charge. Women in Hispanic families gravitate towards being the caretaker's; wife and mother. However, that job is changing into a working mother roll. In these families’ parents are inclined take a lot of pride in their kids. The parents want their children to get a good education but do not often contribute to the child's…