After reading the "Girls have all power..."there is no other way than think about our society as rotten and helpless. The author shows the reader picture of "boys"; she calls them boys though they already grown up, mostly twenty years old, they seem very confused and lost in the reality they have to stand up everyday. Although they look like men they, act and think like adolescents; they even create something like a gang and call themselves Spurs. At first look, they do not have any goals and they are bitter and lazy. They spend all days wandering around, watching baseball, gambling, and partying. They do not work and put very little effort to find the job with the career's perspectives. It seems like they do not believe that it is possible for them to find the rewarding job. However later, a reader can discover that trouble boys have some dreams. Almost all of them want to be famous; they want to be a celebrity. The success for them is not associated with a hard work but with a luck and knowing the right people from the entertainment industry. These dreams however do not come true; Spurs lose their chance for being stars because there are denunciated for their bad treatment of women. They not only feel disappointed but also betrayed by the people from entertainment. Their disappointment makes them yet more bitter and angry. This anger gives way to a violent behavior directed very often in women and crime. "Some of the Spurs had been known to steal things from girls: credit cards and checkbooks and jewelry, and oddities like a gym membership cards, which one of the Spurs even tried to use in spite of feminine face laminated on the square plastic"…
“Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid is a short story/poem was published in The New Yorker in 1978. There are many things that the story “Girl” shows us. One is the oppression of women and the lack of the options that women got. Another is the change in parenting techniques as orders like these wouldn’t be issued in today’s world. The narrator also shows how the gender role has grown since the late 1970s, shows the little girl protesting toward her mother, and shows the love a mother has for her daughter.…
“Adam and Eve” by Ani Difranco and “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid are two literary works that speak to the issue of how important it is to have a mother in a daughter’s life. It is the life experience(s) that can only be communicated to a daughter by her mother. The emotions, feeling and understanding of the female experience of what a woman goes through in life. When a young lady does not receive this information for the female prospective is the difference between socialites view and becoming of a “bad” or “good” girl. It is critical to have a mother in the life of a daughter to provide emotional balance, feeling and understanding from a woman’s point of view.…
So I re-read the poem, this time looking at it from a feminist point of view. And it still upset me. I realized that this girl is being taught that women are not to “do” anything. They are to sit around and look pretty. The daughter sits there, “transfixed by its loveliness and mindful of [her] mother’s wishes,” which are seemingly to train her to be and act just like this doll (Minard, 1984). Here is this girl, seven years old, already being taught that she is to look pretty without really having an opinion on anything.…
The short story “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid was a bittersweet warning from a mother to her daughter. The reader is experiencing the viewpoint of the protagonist through the soliloquy of her mother’s instructions that batter her like bugs smacking the windshield. This scolding reminds me of conversations with my own grandmother. The author doesn’t use periods or capital letters to symbolize the endless barrage of words, which I mistakenly perceived as nagging during my first review. A second reading brought about feelings of sympathy in the lament of a regretful mother’s memories; this reminded me of my own mixed perceptions of past conversations with family. I enjoyed the mother’s attempts to convey her own experience in life through her instructions on how to do mundane chores. When the mother in the story says, “Wash the white clothes on Monday and put them in the stone heap” refers to laundry, “Cook pumpkin fritters in very hot sweet oil, and “Soak salt fish before you cook it” refers to meal preparation (Kincaid 541). After repeated warnings to her daughter against walking like “the slut you are so bent on becoming”, I felt sympathy for the mother’s obvious experience with a hard life as she describes making medicine “to throw away a child before it even becomes a child”, and “bullying and being bullied by a man” (Kincaid 542). I wondered if the mother had been raped. My favorite reference on revenge was her instruction to “spit up in the air if you feel like it”, and “how to…
Justice isn't really about “getting even” or experiencing joy in retaliation, rather it is about righting a wrong that society would agree is morally culpable. Revenge possesses a selfish quality: arrogance, vindication, ruthlessness. Revenge shall not be confused with justice; however, societal standards have allowed these two to become false inverses. As seen in numerous novels, poems and theatrical productions, characters interpret justice as revenge and revenge as justice— so does society.…
In the excerpt from the essay “On Seeing England for the first Time” the author Jamaica Kincaid describes life in Antigua when it was an English colony. Antigua was first colonized by English settlers in 1632 and achieved its independence until 1981. There was an immense British cultural influence in the island, which Kincaid shows in her essay. In the essay Kincaid reveals her defiance for England’s imposed presence in Antigua by comparing other’s conformity to England´s way of life to her own subtle defiance.…
“Pink Think” by Lynn Peril is an excerpt from the introduction to Pink Think, a book that examines the influences of the feminine ideal. Lynn Peril was born in Milwaukee, Wisconsin, but has lived in the San Francisco Bay Area since 1985. She writes, edits, publishes, and detritus of popular culture, especially that concerning gender-related behavioral instructions. The Author starts off the essay with her thesis saying that the human female is bombarded with advice on how to wield those feminine wiles. For example, once upon a time, young girls were suppose to wear conservative dresses, and get boyfriends in hopes of those very boyfriends becoming their husbands and fathering their children so they may become what was perceived as successful, a mother and housewife. These ideas and concepts were fit to the times that Peril mentions in her essay. She has a very negative outlook on pink think and is trying to persuade the reader to also look at the essay as something negative and wicked. Today, I believe that these stereotypes have indeed changed, and do not exist as much in the world we live in today. However, new concepts and ideas have manifested in today’s world for young women in America.…
The central idea in this story seems to be the mother’s search of an understanding of her daughter’s personality and outlook on life. The majority of the story is the mother trying to depict reasons for why her daughter is the way she is, so delicate, reserved, needless, and even unhappy at times. She seems to also defend her parenting choices by making excuses or blaming the urges of others in order to not have all the blame on her. She speaks about how she had no other option but to put her in the care of someone else at the age of two, even though she knew the teacher was “evil” (Pg. 925). “It was the only place there was…the only way I could hold a job” (pg. 925).…
During the late 17th century and early 18th century, children were outfitted like their adult counterparts. Mothers viewed daughters as smaller version of themselves; therefore they were formed into their mother’s image (p.425). Only during the second half of the 18th century did we see a changed where girls were dressed differently. Children were viewed as different creatures that needed more freedom and liberty. Along came the Victorian era, where girls were view as innocent, with their hair curl and outfitted with long dresses, giving the image of fragility. Now, there’s a new generation, the feminist movement. Girls were being encouraged to “be the agent of her own objectification and still be empowered” (p.427). What should have been a movement towards revolutionary changes, instead bought on a boom in porn-like culture. Girls were learning that their value was based on their worth as sex objects, partially by marketing and partially by the adults around…
In the poem “Its a Womans World” by Eavan Boland, Boland uses a couple of devices to show her perception of how women are treated in the world. She describes her perception of women being in the shadows of history while the men are the one doing everything. Boland uses metaphors, analogies, imagery, and allusions to past times to share her perspective.…
Cynthia Enloe encourages a feminist gender analysis when examining anything. The central question of this analysis is where are the women and why are they there? These same questions can apply to girls. In the past many development programs did not view girls as their own category, however girls recently became the development focal point.…
I believe the theme of the story is that Sophia feels it is her right to explore her sexuality however she pleases and to have an independent life, no matter what her father thinks. The writer uses setting to narrow the underlying idea, the theme. In this story, there are two different settings. The first one is in Sophia’s father’s home where she gets scolded for having love letters. Her father finds them and asks if she has been deflowered and if she is a whore. He cannot tolerate her sexuality. Sophia rips the letters out of his hands and tells him that is none of his business. She then leaves her father’s home, representing her desire to have her own independence. The second is in her own home where she publicly humiliates her father as she flaunts her sexuality in front of their guests. Sexual contact between a father and daughter is considered incest; she also flirts with breaking this taboo when she arouses his desire with the kiss. She felt the need to draw attention to his inability to control her sexual behavior.…
The story skips some time from where the violence occurred with her husband, and now Ms. Mooney has opened up a boarding house for travelers, artists, and middle managers. Everyone referred to her as “the madam”, and took her very seriously. Ms. Mooney has a daughter named Polly who is very strange in the way that she approaches men. She walks around the boarding house attempting to attracted male attention by singing “ I’m a naughty girl”. Polly would not be described as a woman who takes her religion too seriously; moreover, this results in her disregarding some of her Catholic morals. Ms. Mooney eventually finds out that Polly has gotten intimate with a man named Mr. Doran, but decides to not speak of it with anyone until further notice.…
To show that country girls have manners too, she bends down and removes her shoes – dainty, leather, of course her best – although what their point has been she can’t now say. Dignity, her mother said, but dignity is so uncomfortable. She slaps the shoes down, hoping the noise will arouse somebody, or maybe scare them off. Her mother calls her over-imaginative, Nella-in-the-Clouds. The inert shoes lie in anti-climax and Nella simply feels a fool.…