By reading Jamaica Kincaid’s “Girl” story, the author shows how the mother communicates with her young daughter. For example, she gives a lot of advice to her daughter; “this is how you sweep a yard; this is how you smile to someone you like completely; this is how you set a table for dinner” (Kincaid) and much more. The mother gives her best to show her daughter how to live a good life and having a good self-esteem. In contrast, Eudora Welty’s “A Worn Path” story, the author also shows how Phoenix Jackson communicates with her grandchild. She doesn’t give advice for her grandchild but she makes sure that he obtains the right medicine. In addition, she said, “This is what come to me to do” (Welty 246). Compared to “Girl” story,…
“Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid is a short story/poem was published in The New Yorker in 1978. There are many things that the story “Girl” shows us. One is the oppression of women and the lack of the options that women got. Another is the change in parenting techniques as orders like these wouldn’t be issued in today’s world. The narrator also shows how the gender role has grown since the late 1970s, shows the little girl protesting toward her mother, and shows the love a mother has for her daughter.…
1st Essay Since the beginning of history, women have been commended on their natural ability to nurture and their ability to not only nurture children, but everything they take interest in. Unfortunately their interests have always been limited. They are denied the right to be fascinated by anything that doesn’t align with the traditional roles of a woman and that is to: cook, clean, submit to her husband, bear children, and look “pretty”.…
this story seems as if it was in the past. the mother seems to have high expectations for the daughter, but does not feel as if she is getting through to her daughter. the mother in the story, was expected to know everything about domestic survival, she was considered the teacher for the girl in the story. she was offering advice but at the same time she was scolding the girl for her promiscuity. there is no structure to this prose poem, I think the author did this on purpose to show that the narrator had a lot of information to give her daughter.this story seems as if it was in the past. the mother seems to have high expectations for the daughter, but does not feel as if she is getting through to her daughter. the mother in the story, was expected to know everything about domestic survival, she was considered the teacher for the girl in the story. she was offering advice but at the same time she was scolding the girl for her promiscuity. there is no structure to this prose poem, I think the author did this on purpose to show that the narrator had a lot of information to give her daughter.…
Time has changed, as the story of "Girl" was written by the mother, as well as community, keep on hold women back from having the opportunity to be free, because of the judge without fear or down is shown in the history of "Girl", which was written by Jamaica Kincaid in 1978.…
anybody. He witnesses a young girl getting shot by a SS officer for running around, he witness a lady getting whipped for trying to pick something up, and he was whipped because he was hiding. Tadek knew that if he did not continue to follow the orders of cleaning out the trains, then he would have been punish because of not following the orders.…
Jamaica Kincaid seems to be the passive narrator, receiving the instructions from her mother on how to live in their present social setting. The mother figure focuses on two main categories in her guidance, social manners and domesticity. First, guidance is given for a child’s stage in life, on household chores such as washing clothes and cooking fish (Kincaid 118). This indicates a social status that is probably not upper class aristocracy. Next is the progression to social manners for a young girl, how to behave at Sunday school, how to eat properly at the dinner table, and how not to talk to “wharf-rat boys” (Kincaid 118). This means the receiver is someone who would have some amount of social class and not necessarily destitute lower class. As the chronological progression advances, the homemaking skills of a young woman as opposed to the child stage are highlighted, as seen in guidance on how to sew buttons, hem dresses, and how to iron clothes (Kincaid 118). The next sets of social manners are taught for a young woman; how to behave when she likes someone and how to politely behave with people she doesn’t like (Kincaid 118). This level of social behavior would be important in finding an appropriate husband of equal status while not offending unsuitable partners. The next guidance on homemaking is aimed towards a proper woman, setting a table for meals, how to entertain guests, and how to behave in front male acquaintances (Kincaid 118). Finally, the mother expresses through metaphors how to…
Girl by Jamaica Kincaid and If by Rudyard Kipling, are two texts that are written by parents with real world expectations for their children. Both texts though are similar and different in many different ways. Girl, is a one sentence story about a mother’s expectations for her “Boy crazy girl” that is going out into the real world by herself. She explains what so tips for her daughter in a more harsh than gentle voice. “If” is a poem of a dad poetically telling his son about the good and bad and how to handle it including some expectations he has for his son.…
“The slut you are so bent upon becoming” this expression occurs throughout the context of the story as the mother tries to shape her daughter to lead an reputed lifestyle. The story constantly focuses on how a women needs to behave in public; “on Sunday try to walk like a lady” (Kincaid 9); “don’t eat fruits on the street-flies will follow you” (Kincaid 11). Vision of womanhood is highlighted through statements such as “don’t squat down to play marbles-you are not a boy” also depicts double standards created by the society towards how men can behave versus how women should (Kincaid 30). Kincaid throughout her piece points out how it is more important to appear as a women in front of the society whether or not in reality, a “slut”; “they won’t…
If by Rudyard Kipling, and Girl by Jamaica Kincaid, are two texts about parents giving their kids advice about the real world. In Girl a mom is writing to her daughter about specific rules she needs to follow in the real world to become a successful women. In If a father is telling his son about basic rules he can follow. The Two texts might sound the same, but they are also different.…
What makes a woman? Femininity and masculinity have long been defined and divided along gender lines that were never meant to be crossed; a man or woman who does not fit the archetypical picture of their strict gender-biased boundaries is shunned and stereotyped. A woman who does not embody the perception of the perfect wife and mother, especially in the 1950s-60s, would have been considered unladylike. In Jamaica Kincaid’s “Girl”, the matters of womanhood and femininity are expressed as a mother teaches her daughter the rules and restrictions that come along with being a lady, especially those that will help her to be accepted in society.…
Women have been around about as long as men have, yet the portrayal of women compared to men tends to be inferior. Children, teens, and young adults are learning and reading about the roles that society has created for women. Society has managed to shape how women should act and be seen, but the views that are seen on television and that are read in books have come a long way. For women, the way they are seen, shown to be treated, expected to behave, and the presumption on what women are allowed to do has changed drastically. From the way books were written back in Shakespeare’s time, to more recent books like Twilight, to even modern media, women have been given new views about their role and how they should perceive themselves.…
In contrast, the short story “Girl” by Jamaica Kincaid suggests that women are sentenced to patriarchy as a result of socially constructed gender stereotypes. She criticizes the idealized patriarchal norms and pressures which overshadow the lives of women. Starting early on in their childhood, little girls are explicitly exposed to the pressures and expectations of how they should live. As a result of gender stereotypes, young girls are brainwashed to believe that their role as a woman is a domestic homemaker and that they should always be kempt and maintain a feminine outer appearance. Kincaid ultimately criticizes how women and girls are trapped under a system of patriarchy that can not be erased.…
“Lord grant me the wisdom to bring about change in this life…Today I stand for freedom and change”…
In the moment that parents find out that it’s a boy on the way, they start decorating the baby’s room all blue and the theme it’s usually something tough, something like dinosaurs, sports, pirates, jungle animals, among others. From the beginning parents teach their sons to be tough and to learn how to protect themselves. Boy’s closet is full of tiny jeans, cowboy clothes, boots, polo shirts, Nike shoes and more. Boy’s toys consist in action figures, video games and trucks. Holly Brewen, a psychology shows in a report that must of parents don’t teach their sons how to do chores. They teach them to do dirty jobs. “Boys are made to think that certain household chores are women’s work” says Breven in his report. But in addition, girls are part of stereotypes too. When a girl is on the way, parents begin to decorate the room with pink stuff and the theme in this case is something soft, like flowers, butterflies or even the princess. At this time parent conclude that their daughter will be very feminine. The girls closet is replete of cute dresses and pick shoes. The little girl’s toys are tea set and dolls. This is how the stereotypical women begin. Girls are supposed to be a perfect lady, wear…