Author Stephanie Coontz writes about the ideas of love and marriage through out history in the article “The Radical Idea of Marrying for Love.” Early in the article Coontz quotes an early twentieth century author by the name of George Bernard Shaw, who states, “marriage is an institution that brings together two people under the influence of the most violent, most insane, most delusive, and most transient of passions. They are required to swear that they will remain in that excited, abnormal, and exhausting condition continuously until death do them part.” ( qtd. in Shaw 378) Coontz explains that the ideas of marriage today are, although heart felt, unrealistic and daunting. She reveals that not so long ago the thoughts on love and marriage were very different for many societies and cultures throughout the world.…
People often dream of finding the perfect soul mate…a special someone with similar hopes and goals for their future. They dream of someone to share the good and bad times with them. They dream of a person that will love them unconditionally until death parts them. And although I seriously doubt anyone has ever said the sacred marriage vows to another while believing the union would not last forever, the high divorce rate shows that more and more, marriages are failing and separation is highly probable. It’s not clear why some marriages are successful and why some fail, but after reading the two poems, “Most Like an Arch This Marriage” and “Conjoined”, it’s crystal clear to me that marriage can indeed be either dream come true, or a living nightmare. In fact, it’s also quite possible for one partner to be happy in a marriage and the other one to be completely miserable. In this analysis, I plan on comparing the two poems, their similarities as well as their differences and how the poets used various writing techniques to illustrate their ideas on the marriage theme they have written about.…
Relationships involve a range of feelings: from pain, guilt and suffering to excitement and joy. Unfortunately, due to the complex nature of relationships, these feelings may be experienced during the same relationship at different times or even at the same time. For example, ‘The Manhunt’ is a poem about love – a woman searching for the emotional connection with her husband after their relationship was affected by his experiences of war. As suggested by the title, the poem portrays feelings of longing as well as feelings of love. However, this is a poem of many levels as Armitage also strives to highlight the physical pain suffered by the husband. Furthermore, as Armitage explores this issue in the format of a dramatic monologue, choosing to take on the voice of another (in contrast to his usual style), the poem also presents Armitage’s sympathetic views towards this subject.…
marriage as a lifelong bond of loyalty between a couple, and then continues on to shows the darker side with the death of husbands and the death of woman Wang after she ran away.…
Moore heartlessly concludes that this innocent, yet mistaken belief of public promises result in meaningless contradiction of private commitment. “’Marriage” is obscure for these reasons, for the brevity of its insights and the lack of smooth transitions between them” (Hadas 106). Marianne Moore has a “conventions inconsistency” state of mind that shows throughout the poem “Marriage.” The tone of “Marriage” is constantly changing tones, it seems to respond to itself and its own need to leave and unsatisfactory phase of life. Unlike most Moore understands “marriage” as a set of attitudes and not as an event that has taken place between two people. Moore expresses that her beliefs on “marriage” are concerned with mental not physical actions.…
In the essay “The Radical Idea of marrying for Love,” Stephanie Coontz voices her opinion on George Shaw theory, the expectations of love and how it has changed over time. Shaw believes that marriage is “an institution that brings together two people under the influence of the most violent, most insane, most delusive and most transient of passions (Coontz 378). Marriage overtime had different variations depending the time frame in which it was in, and the culture that influenced it.…
In the essay “The Radical Idea of Marrying for Love,” Stephanie Coontz examines the history of marriage around the world and details its transformation from a necessity for the survival of society to becoming a tool for personal fulfillment and happiness.…
Throughout the poem, repetition is also used to draw attention and add emphasis onto important references. Olds stated, “-like…
The poem begins without indicating who these people are or what has happened to them in the past, references to “he” and “her”. Throughout the poem the central character is never given a name. The significance of this is the wife is an anonymous woman due to the lack of a permanent place to live. No one knows her name. She could perhaps represent others.…
What do you think are the feelings about marriage in this poem and how does the poet present those feelings to the reader? (18 marks)…
The author employs imagery throughout the poem by pairing vivid colors with other characters and figures to contribute to a more complex meaning. This visual imagery is found in line 3 when the speaker described…
Stephanie Coontz’s essay on “The Radical Idea of Marrying for Love” shows her opinion that the expectations of marriage are unrealistic based on different societies around the world in different time periods. For example in George Bernard Shaw’s theory, he believed that married was “an institution that brings together two people under the influence of the most violent, most insane, most delusive and most transient of passions” (qtd. I’m Coontz 378). In our history all of the world marriage has been said to be a tool of survival. Emotional love played a small part in marriage and was even sometimes discouraged. Even in today’s world love is still no seen as a necessity of marriage.…
The poem focuses on the process by which a cheating couple hides their relationship. Throughout the poem the guy is nervous about the meeting and does not want to leave.........He mentions that the “kids holler” (Line 1) as though the noise would bring unwanted attention to them. He also says “don’t take the matches, the wrong key rings …” (Line 10). ........unrumpled, as agreed?” (Line 5, 6) he asks that question because ...........ike they slept in separate beds in case anyone ever found out. He also wants to make sure that nothing could later be found by his spouse and which would then lead to their secret relationship being exposed.…
In the essay “The Radical Idea of Marrying for Love”, Stephanie Coontz surveys the history of marriage throughout the world, revealing its historical purposes and the philosophies surrounding it. Coontz gives examples of how once people married for utility, necessity, and social advantages. She explains how over time and through the changing ideas about love and the sexes that people now marry for love, companionship, and personal happiness.…
Write a close analysis of 40 lines of poetry by Carol Ann Duffy and discuss how far these lines reflect her view on love as presented in “The Worlds Wife”…