Attachment Styles and Relationships - 1
Attachment Style and Relationships
Psy/220 Positive Psychology
When looking at the types of attachment styles and how they affect the type of love relationship an individual may have, we take a look at the infant who can only survive if the parent is willing to meet the basic needs of the infant. In this stage of our life we form bonds with our caregivers mainly our parents and most of the time the primary caregiver is our mother. The bond between mother and infant tends to be a strong considering it is the mother who is taking care of the infant’s basic needs. In the textbook it states “Our most important first question is: Can I count on my caregiver to be available when needed?” Bolt, M. (2004) Pursuing human strengths: A positive psychology guide. New York, NY: Worth Publishers. (p.22), in my own opinion when looking at the first attachment style which is secure attachment I would say that an individual has experience this type of care from their caregiver would have a stable love relationship with those around them being that they would be able to relate to others better because they have been shown that their caregiver will be there for them even if they should leave them for a lengthy period of time. I would say the individuals that experience these types of relationships may tend to be more well-adjusted in their relationships and will form stronger bonds within these relationships, in this case I would say these individuals are happier, more independent, and will most likely have healthier meaningful interactions in their love relationships, which is a positive aspect when developing life-long partnerships with those around them. In the second attachment style which is avoidant individuals who have cold caregivers will start displaying those same traits that they have been exposed to by the person who is caring for them, they show little distress when during periods of separation and do not cling upon reunion with their parent, these
Psy/220 Positive Psychology
When looking at the types of attachment styles and how they affect the type of love relationship an individual may have, we take a look at the infant who can only survive if the parent is willing to meet the basic needs of the infant. In this stage of our life we form bonds with our caregivers mainly our parents and most of the time the primary caregiver is our mother. The bond between mother and infant tends to be a strong considering it is the mother who is taking care of the infant’s basic needs. In the textbook it states “Our most important first question is: Can I count on my caregiver to be available when needed?” Bolt, M. (2004) Pursuing human strengths: A positive psychology guide. New York, NY: Worth Publishers. (p.22), in my own opinion when looking at the first attachment style which is secure attachment I would say that an individual has experience this type of care from their caregiver would have a stable love relationship with those around them being that they would be able to relate to others better because they have been shown that their caregiver will be there for them even if they should leave them for a lengthy period of time. I would say the individuals that experience these types of relationships may tend to be more well-adjusted in their relationships and will form stronger bonds within these relationships, in this case I would say these individuals are happier, more independent, and will most likely have healthier meaningful interactions in their love relationships, which is a positive aspect when developing life-long partnerships with those around them. In the second attachment style which is avoidant individuals who have cold caregivers will start displaying those same traits that they have been exposed to by the person who is caring for them, they show little distress when during periods of separation and do not cling upon reunion with their parent, these