Berry did not blame God, instead she blame herself of what happened to her loved one, because she knew, she failed to protect her loved one from the accident, and as a parent she obligated to guide and secure the life of her loved one, but she was not able to do her job and let it happened unexpectedly.
Blaming yourself is one of the most powerful negative reactions to the loss of a loved one, equaled only by anger as a common grief experience. After someone close to them dies, they think back to events, conversations, or modes of behavior they engaged in before the death. According to Beliefnet, (2001) They examine the way in which they believe they played a vital role in that person's final decline, accident, or illness. Often,