Bshs 385 Conflict In Interpersonal Relationships Research Paper
Conflict in Interpersonal Relationships
Katy Norris
BSHS/385
July 27, 2015
Audra Stinson
Conflict in Interpersonal Relationships
Conflict is a normal part of everyday life. Conflict occurs in many different relationship types. Conflict is known as a disagreement between two or more individuals. The disagreement can be due to, incompatible goals, certain interferences, or competition. Whatever the reason may be, we all deal with conflict at some point.
Conflict happens quite often in romantic relationships. My fiancé and I have encountered several, during the 6 years we have been together. We have found ways to work through each one. Conflict has advantages, as well as disadvantages. In a romantic relationship, some advantages would be, …show more content…
This is the key to gaining understanding to help solve, or resolve conflict. Listening actively when conflict occurs, will help find a solution faster than if you didn’t listen. Being calm and listening to your partners side and hearing things from his or her point of view, will help you have a better understanding. I express this to my fiancé all the time. He will listen to what I have to say and I will do the same with him. This allows us to come to an agreement more promptly. If we aren’t listening to each other this created more conflict between us. The ability to listen and hear what another person is saying, is needed to work through conflicted situations. “Although we all like to think we’re saying exactly what we mean, that’s not always the case, especially when we’re talking to someone who uses a style very different then our own” (Carter, 2011). During conflict resolution, I use assertive communication. I am an easy going person. I always care about what people have to say, as well as what they think. I always ask for their opinions, before I express my own. I try to be as fair as possible, but make sure I get my opinion across as well. The way you communicate has a big impact on how you get on with people and get the things you want. Good communication skills can help you avoid conflict and solve problems, they’re also important for making friends and having healthy relationships. Being assertive, when communicating, is considered a healthier communication style. It helps you gain self-esteem, earn respect from others, reduces stress, creates more honest relationships, and creates situations that evens out. Being assertive creates less drama, opposed to passive-aggressive
Katy Norris
BSHS/385
July 27, 2015
Audra Stinson
Conflict in Interpersonal Relationships
Conflict is a normal part of everyday life. Conflict occurs in many different relationship types. Conflict is known as a disagreement between two or more individuals. The disagreement can be due to, incompatible goals, certain interferences, or competition. Whatever the reason may be, we all deal with conflict at some point.
Conflict happens quite often in romantic relationships. My fiancé and I have encountered several, during the 6 years we have been together. We have found ways to work through each one. Conflict has advantages, as well as disadvantages. In a romantic relationship, some advantages would be, …show more content…
This is the key to gaining understanding to help solve, or resolve conflict. Listening actively when conflict occurs, will help find a solution faster than if you didn’t listen. Being calm and listening to your partners side and hearing things from his or her point of view, will help you have a better understanding. I express this to my fiancé all the time. He will listen to what I have to say and I will do the same with him. This allows us to come to an agreement more promptly. If we aren’t listening to each other this created more conflict between us. The ability to listen and hear what another person is saying, is needed to work through conflicted situations. “Although we all like to think we’re saying exactly what we mean, that’s not always the case, especially when we’re talking to someone who uses a style very different then our own” (Carter, 2011). During conflict resolution, I use assertive communication. I am an easy going person. I always care about what people have to say, as well as what they think. I always ask for their opinions, before I express my own. I try to be as fair as possible, but make sure I get my opinion across as well. The way you communicate has a big impact on how you get on with people and get the things you want. Good communication skills can help you avoid conflict and solve problems, they’re also important for making friends and having healthy relationships. Being assertive, when communicating, is considered a healthier communication style. It helps you gain self-esteem, earn respect from others, reduces stress, creates more honest relationships, and creates situations that evens out. Being assertive creates less drama, opposed to passive-aggressive