Case Study 7a Child Bully

7A child bully is categorized under Erikson’s industry versus inferiority. Children are beginning to compare themselves to others; therefore, some children are more skilled at certain activities than others. The child bullying others is because either he is superior (or just more inferior) in activities while the other children are inferior, or a child (the bully) feels inferior while other children are more skilled at activities. In this situation, since the child is already feeling damaged and broken because of the bully, the parent should definitely console their child. The goal is to make the child feel worthy and important by showing affection to the child. Also, the parent should contact the school, which can contact the bully’s parents
The shame versus doubt stage encompasses toddlers, age one to three. They are developing independence, attempting to be self- sufficient, and controlling their environment based off of their actions. In this case, she wants to pick her own outfit and dress herself. By her having an opinion and deciding upon her style, she gains a sense of independence. However, if the parent eliminates this “opportunity to act on her environment, she may begin to doubt her abilities, which could lead to low self-esteem and feelings of shame” (296). Therefore, even if her choices are not appropriate, embarrassing, or mismatch, the parent, to prevent further damage on the child, should allow the child to continue dress herself. By allowing her to make the decision, she is realizing that she is capable of handling situations
The task in this stage is contributing to society and others through multiple methods and finding your purpose in this world. If an individual failed at this task, they undergo stagnation and begin to become disconnected with society and apathetic to “productivity and self- improvement” (296). His own needs matter before anyone else’s. In perspective, the man realized that certain opportunities were passed by, and he has not contributed to the growth of society. Therefore, he is experiencing a “mid-life crisis.” The friend should tell the man encouraging words, such as the positive output of his life. Also, the friend can remind the man of “the good times,” and the affection they have for him because of all that he has accomplished. Truly, the adult feels neglectful and regretful about the opportunities he passed and the mistakes he