In this essay I’m going to write about the formation of romantic relationships. Formation is the very early stage of the relationship including initial attraction.…
One theory put forward for the formation of romantic relationships was by Murstein – called the Matching Hypothesis. Murstein argued that we all desire the best looking person; however we accept that this may not happen, so we go for people with a similar attractiveness to ourselves. It makes us far less likely to suffer rejection. So, in theory, Murstein’s argument is fundamentally based on physical attractiveness and does not take into account personality. Murstein says that self esteem can also affect this process. If someone suffers from a low self esteem, they are more likely to go for someone who is not as good looking as them to try and boost their esteem. This also works in reverse, if someone has a high self esteem they will go for someone who they believe is ‘out of their league’ as they feel they have the confidence to make them their partner. Murstein also carried out research to support his theory. He studied 99 couples who were dating and compared them with randomly paired couples. He found that the real couples were consistently rated as more alike in levels of attractiveness.…
Love is blind, is the perfect phrase to describe Jay Gatsby’s relationship with Daisy Buchanan in the novel The Great Gatsby by F. Scott Fitzgerald. The novel, as a whole, is an intricate love story between them. Both characters live off of their romanticism and realism that has controlled every decision and motives they have made. Gatsby’s sole dream is to focus on trying to get what he had in the past with Daisy, as the narrator tries to pull Gatsby to reality and face the present, he retorts “Can't repeat the past? Why of course you can!"(Pg. 116). As for Daisy, she is stuck between who she used to be and who she was. Certainly, there is no love between them, making their reality an illusion.…
Set in Boston, in the Puritan times of the 1940’s, the book, The Scarlet Letter, by Nathaniel Hawthorne, is about a young girl named Hester Prynne who commits adultery with the town’s minister, Arthur Dimmensdale. Hester is married to a man named Roger Chillingworth, a scholarly man, who sent her to Boston years earlier while he settled his affairs in Europe. Years passed and Chillingworth arrives in Boston to find his wife on a Scaffold being accused of adultery. After this, Chillingworth lusts for revenge, and is determined to find the father of Hester’s baby, Pearl. Throughout the novel, Chillingworth undergoes a change that transforms him from a respectable gentleman, to a suspicious and determined man, and thus to a man compared to the devil. This change is all caused by Hester’s sin.…
Branching off from how long the wife and the blind man knew each other, there comes another emotion that we more readily relate to; jealousy. Although the narrator does not blatantly tell the wife or blind man that he is jealous, he does subtle things that show he is. He flips his wife’s robe close when it slips open; while his wife and the blind man are talking, he turns on and turns up the television. His thoughts show how he feels about them conversing, when he thinks “I waited in vain to…
Explain the Influences of two predictable and two unpredictable major life events on the development of the individual.…
Walster`s matching hypothesis implies that persons search for a partner is influenced by what they want in a partner and who they think they can get as a partner. The more socially desirable a person is, the more they would expect their potential partner to be. In this sense, most people are in fact influenced by their chances of having affection reciprocated. This relates to how someone may feel that another individual is ‘out of their league’, where they deem the chances of such individual returning their affection as improbable. Overall the initial attraction towards someone would be determined by a comparison between the other person’s attractiveness and their own attractiveness. Those that are matched in social desirability are more likely to interact affectionately and consequently are more likely to have successful relationships than individuals that are mismatched.…
In this essay I will be looking at four theories relating to attribution of causality. Jones (1977) defined attribution as ‘the process by which people use available information to make influences about the causes of particular behaviour’. Internal or ‘dispositional attribution’ (within the person e.g. personality) and external or ‘situational attribution’ (the environment) factors are often used when explaining a person’s behaviour. (Cardwell, 1996). When discussing the theories I will state the strengths and weaknesses of each and how each is related to attribution.…
In 1970 Byrne and Clore introduced the reward/ need satisfaction theory for the formation of relationships. They suggested that we are attracted to individuals whose presence is rewarding for us, and that naturally we find stimuli rewarding if it meets an unmet need; the more rewards someone provides for us, the more we should be attracted to them. They believed that the formation if relationships was linked with the idea of classical and operant conditioning, with operant conditioning we are likely to repeat behaviours that leads to a desirable outcome and avoid behaviours that lead to undesirable ones, so we enter the relationships because the presence of some individuals is directly associated with reinforcement, making us have positive feelings, which makes them more attractive to us.…
Students everywhere may feel pressured into doing well in their course classes in order to receive a higher grade. It may not seem that way in high school but to a college student, grades mean everything. Grades are used as motivation for the student to strive for success and in order to be a success, they have to work hard for it. But how much can that student take in order to reach the grade that they want? For a college student, grades are a vital component in the students’ lives which may determine their futures as well. Pressure is what holds the students’ back from getting what they want and they can lead to consequences. Overwhelmed college students are in danger of making harmful decisions about their future.…
The death penalty hurts many Americans, not just the ones who are sentenced to death.…
Everyone has to face challenges, but not many confront it. Whether they are young or old, rich or poor, the struggle of a challenge can vary. In the biographical sports drama titled The Blind Side directed by John Lee Hancock, the protagonist Michael Oher faces countless challenges and difficulties and attempts to address them. As the film progresses, the director continuously exposes the viewer to Michael’s character along with the predicaments he faces. When coming to confront these challenges doing so alone may be tiresome which is why a loved by your side makes it easier. How you choose to tackle the situation as well as how you react to it can deeply shape who you are as a person. Who you…
The difference between causation and correlation is extremely significant in systematic thought. These two notions get confused with one another whether it is a misinterpretation or having the aspiration to provide a reasonable description for scientific observations. As a result it is critical to have the understanding of the difference between the two concepts. In this writing I will compare and contrast the concepts of cause and correlation.…
* In order to analyze causes and effect, we must look for connections between events.…
Developing our openness with one another was highly important but it did not help with the certainty and uncertainty of our relationship. Knapp, Vangelisti & Caughlin (2013) state “in order for us to be comfortable with another person, a certain amount of predictability is necessary” (p. 53). It was very difficult to predict the relationship with Rell and I was willing to become vulnerable and allowing him to form a relationship with my daughter, and the change helped with remaining consistent and stable in our actions with another. But what I did not realize was even though Rell and my daughter had a wonderful relationship, he was ready for what Burnett & DeGreeff had discussed in their article whereas our relationship would be as followed…