Columbine High School (CHS) is a suburban public school located in Jefferson County, Colorado. Frank DeAngelis, a middle aged man who had previously coached football and baseball for sixteen years at Columbine, was the principal of the close-knit high school. He was loved by his students and admired by his staff for his ability to address his students as mature adults. The student body looked up to him and appreciated his truthfulness and lack of sugarcoating when serious topics were being discussed. Three days before prom an assembly was called to strengthen the awareness of the dangers of driving under the influence of drugs or alcohol. Instead of just lecturing the students Mr. DeAngelis used his own life experiences to teach and guide the students along the safe paths that still allowed for occasional goofing off.…
Authoritarian parents employ firm control in an arbitrary way that does not take account of the child's individuality.…
4. Identify and describe the parenting style that usually has the best outcome for children. An authoritative parenting style usually has the best outcome for children. An authoritative parenting style is where the parent shows the child love but also sets limits. The parents respect their children 's rights but also require obedience.…
Baumrind (1967) suggests that the majority of parents display one of three different parenting styles. Authoritarian is the first style of parenting considered by Baumrind. This is where the parent uses strict discipline and leaves no opportunity for the child to negotiate. An example of a phrase used by an authoritarian parent may be “No you can not”, however, this may lead to the child rebelling at some point, therefore making it hard to impose rules. Permissive, The second parenting style, relies on imposing few rules or boundaries, the impact of which may be both negative and positive. The positive impact of this approach is that it may lead to better social skills. Alternatively the negative impact may be that the child could lack personal responsibility. To paraphrase, an example a parent may use with this parenting style may be “Well if you do not feel like it”, however, Baumrind contests that if a child’s behavior needs to be altered it may be difficult to do so with this parenting style. The third parenting style considered by Baumrind is authoritative. This is where the parents set clear standards and no punitive punishments.…
There are three different types of parenting styles used by families, authoritarian, permissive and democratic. Authoritarian style is when the parents present themselves as absolute authority in all matters. Children do not argue with their parent’s decisions and they are taught respect for authority to instill strong moral character in them. The children aren’t allowed to speak their own opinion. Permissive Style is when parents let their children do things on their own and make their own choices. For example, when it comes to the child’s bedtime, homework, TV schedule and what they eat, etc. Last parenting style is democratic. This style is when parents use a both styles. Both parents and children are able to voice their needs and opinions. When the family makes decisions, it usually is up to the entire family, the parents have the final decision. This is an open-communication style. I feel that the democratic style is better than the other two parenting styles because it has a mix of both styles in it, there should be a fair amount of discipline and freedom.…
Through childrearing form Native Americans, Modern American society can learn a lot of things about how to raise children. First one is that Native Americans respect their children as one individual person. Second one is that Native Americans allow their children to get same freedom of behavior as adults. Third one is that Native Americans share adult’s role with their children. Fourth one is that Native Americans permit their children to adapt themselves into the social order, and Native Americans do not usually inflict corporal punishment or oppressive methods on their children not to force conformity. Through those methods, Modern American children…
First, an Authoritarian Father would be someone who is highly demanding and directive, but not responsive. He is obedient, status-oriented and expects his orders to be obeyed. This Father provides a well-ordered and structured environment with clearly stated rules. If these rules were not to be followed, a punishment would be given. This style of parenting doesn’t allow room for questioning the rules and does not explain them. The Father has high demands on his children and is not responsive to them. Effects of an authoritarian parenting…
This style of parenting employs little warmth with a high degree of control (Kail & Cavanaugh, 2010). The rules are explicitly directed by these parents and are…
Mr. and Mrs. HarshHeart believe in the importance of stern discipline and impose strict rules…
Most ethnic groups like Latinos, Asian Americans, and Middle Eastern Americans are made up of a single group of people with a common geographical origin, history, and culture.…
However, there are few to no rules set for the children and this parenting style tends to be considered “pushovers” because they do not want to upset the child. Permissive parents tend to compromise the rules and expectations set to avoid confrontation, and they are more of a friend than a parent more times then not. Although a child might think that a permissive parenting style is the best because there aren't set boundaries or consequences, but permissive parenting can have long-term damaging effects. These damaging effects could be insecurity in the children because of having no set boundaries, poor social skills because of lack of discipline, self-centeredness, poor academic success because of lack of motivation or clashing with authority because they never had to…
Just as it sounds, this type of parenting style involves no warmth, support, or guidance. This type of parenting results in children either being well adjusted successful members of the society or rebelling (Boyd & Bee, 2012, p.320-329).…
Parents are usually very warm, caring and loving to their children, but are not assertive or controlling, there are no demands from these parents (Wentzel & Russel 2009). Hence the reason why this parenting style has been highly associated with children’s and adolescents’ underachievement (Onatsu-Arvilommi & Nurmi, as cited in Aunola et al., 2000). The permissive parent promotes immaturity as well as lack of impulse control and self-reliance, the child also exhibits a lack of independence and social and cognitive competence (Baumrind, as cited in Starr,…
Authoritarian – The authoritarian style characteristics of a demanding and inflexible parent who usually has a preconceived goal to achieve. This parent expects obedience, and children have little input into decisions that many affect them. This form of parenting can result in a child becoming resentful and distant. Children of authoritarian parents tend to do moderately well in school and do not engage in problem behaviours, they are always kept save. In an emergency situation, this is the most desirable style of parenting. If a family’s house was on fire, it would not be appropriate to discuss the situation and vote on the safest exit! But they have lower self-esteem, poorer social skills and more depression. A higher percentage of obese children come from authoritarian families. The fear that an authoritarian parent can arouse may lead to a very poor quality relationship. It may also develop poor decision –making skill for the child due to a lack of opportunity, and may either make poor choices or rely heavily on their parents to support them.…
We believe our children are the future. How do we ensure that we can provide them with all the essential tools to make it as productive adults? Can we produce responsible, loving and caring, respectable individuals to take our place in governing the world? There are a few ways that have been described in the molding of future adults. Parenting styles control the outcome of each individual child and can determine how these children will develop into young adults. In this present day there have been studies to determine what aspects of parenting will yield the most effective and efficient individuals for our society. Parenting styles will dictate how a child will develop competence in dealing with the world.…