750-751). George and Martha predominantly engage in a competitive conflict style, where winning the argument is more important than resolving the issue. Their conflicts are characterized by passive and direct aggression. George and Martha’s arguments follow a predictable pattern: a minor disagreement escalates into a verbal battle, during which they hurl insults and dredge up past grievances. These rituals are destructive, as they reinforce negative communication patterns and prevent them from resolving underlying issues (Adler et al., 2017, p. 779). This seems to be the only way the two communicate, which can cause problems. By examining George and Martha's relationship through the lens of these chapters, it becomes clear that their communication is characterized by dysfunctional patterns of listening, emotional expression, relational communication, and conflict management. Their interactions are a tragic example of how destructive communication practices can erode a relationship, turning it into a battlefield where love and respect are overshadowed by anger and …show more content…
It posits that communication in relationships is a dynamic, reciprocal process where behavior from one partner prompts a response from the other. In George and Martha's relationship, their interactions can be seen as a series of circular patterns where one person's actions trigger a response, which then influences the next action. For example, if Martha criticizes George, he might respond defensively or with sarcasm, which then prompts further criticism from Martha. This creates a feedback loop that reinforces negative communication patterns. IST emphasizes the importance of understanding these patterns to address the underlying issues in the relationship (Milburn, 2024). Uncertainty Reduction Theory deals with “human interaction as the force of sharing social information that leads to the creation, stabilization, and sometimes destruction of interpersonal relationships” (p. 148). It is especially relevant in the initial stages of relationships, but it can also apply to ongoing relationships where there is a need to manage uncertainty. In the case of George and Martha, they might use various strategies to reduce uncertainty about each other, such as self-disclosure, asking questions, or observing each other's behavior. However, if they consistently engage in negative or ambiguous communication, they may actually increase uncertainty, leading to distrust