Love and Hate: Does True Love Conquer All?
In recent discussions of love and hate, a controversial issue has been presented: can true love conquer all adversity? On one hand, some argue that love has its limitation. From this perspective, many will claim that familial love cannot conquer a violent home with a violent father. On the other hand, however, others argue that love can conquer any obstacle that appears in a relationship, whether material or natural. In the words of one of this view’s main proponents, “Come live with me and be my love, and we will all the pleasures prove that valleys, groves, hills, and fields, woods, or steepy mountain yields (Marlowe 777).” According to this view, love is enough to move mountains. In sum, this issue is whether love can conquer all adversity or if love has its limitations that cannot be overcome. My own view is that no matter what type of love, romantic or familial, love can conquer anything. Though I concede that there will always be struggles in the way of loving another person, I still maintain that in the end love will overcome. Although some may object that my views are too idealistic, I reply that love in and of itself is extremely idealistic. What force, when all is said and done, is stronger than love? In the "Passionate Shepherd", the speaker offers his lover a multitude of delights to persuade her love in his favor. At the very beginning of the poem he states his intention that "we will all the pleasures prove (Marlowe 777)" creating a basis upon which all his promises are centered. The speaker furnishes his love through the use of natural objects such as clothes and accessories. He describes "A gown made of the finest wool, which from our pretty lambs we pull (Marlowe 777)” and "Fair lines slippers for the cold, with buckles of the purest gold (Marlowe 777)" to influence his love 's decision. His gifts continue with "A belt of straw
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