Consequences Of Dissolution Of Marriage

Different cultures treat the prospects of dissolution of marriage differently. In Roman Catholicism marriage is treated to be sacrosanct and not to be allowed to be terminated easily. In the Muslim religion it is not considered to be so rigid; if the union is not a happy one, it is better to terminate. But termination is often unilateral, the option being vested with the husband who can pronounce irrevocably the dissolution of the marriage by mere repetition of a particular word three times. No doubt it is a primitive idea and it is unjust to give the option to only one side of the union unilaterally without the consent of the other. The trend in modern societies is that marriage need not be treated so sacrosanct as to be totally indissoluble;
Matrimony is not to be entered into impulsively, unadvisedly or lightly but advisedly and seriously. ‘I kissed hundred frogs before I kissed my husband’ is a typical expression of a modern woman. But with the advancement of IT, modern day matrimonies are different ball game altogether. Gone are the days of dependency and those husband-facing-wives. In digital life, love is redefined: casual and eases. Love is now a matter of chance and convenience, matrimony is a matter of give and take, and divorce is not an outrage. Yet, marriage, which is still being expected to be an everlasting union, is really an achievement for both. They remain -- till death part
Not working equal but working together, not thinking alike, but thinking together are the kind of mantras to the healthy and constructive marriage. It works on the principle of equal partnership. What is now important is the capacity for adjustment and trying to understand each other’s point of view. Both have to see each other at the same eye level. Don’t make a fuss -- that you’ll be sorry later. It should not be like that that within marriage you owe everything and without marriage you owe nothing. Both should be responsible outside as well as inside the marriage in order to reduce the temptation to evade marriage. Love is the answer. Love starts when manipulation stops. Love stops when manipulation starts. When it comes from the heart it goes to the heart. You remember in reflection. You never renew an old account with intention, nor make a side-eye with suspicion. Mentally, one way to love something is to realize that it might be lost. Love comes unnoticed but you will only notice when it leaves unnoticed – and,