Filial piety played an important role throughout The Death of Woman Wang, and was demonstrated in several interactions and consequences. Ts’ui Meng is a great example of how Confucian views were present in the northeastern corner of China, but not idealistic. At the age of sixteen, Ts’ui Meng was known as a violent boy around the neighborhood. “Only to his mother did Ts’ui show respect, and he would calm down when she appeared: she would scold him for his conduct, and he would respond obediently to all her commands…” (79). Filial piety or simply respect and support for one’s family …show more content…
is shown here when his conduct changed in the presence of a family member. In stride with the Confucian idea of filial piety emerges the idea of moral suicide.
According to Spence, “suicides were considered morally correct as they showed the depth of the woman’s reverence for her husband” (100). Confucius stated that it was alright for a woman to take her own life to show commitment and loyalty for the memory of her husband and the family they shared. The act of committing sanctioned suicide demonstrates Confucian ideology and values within individual behavior. It is important to note that suicidal behavior outside of the parameters of loyalty and marriage were strictly forbidden and was thought to harm the community because “…women who kill themselves, dangling from ropes or hanging from their kerchiefs, will haunt deserted alleys and the inner
rooms.” Another Confucian idea found in The Death of Woman Wang is the subservient behavior of women during this time. This idea of wanting to follow the demands and wishes of one’s husband relates to the ultimate subservient behavior of committing suicide. In general, the disconnect in society between men and women stems from the idea of women not holding equal status and basically being beneath their husbands. Throughout The Death of Woman Wang by Jonathan D. Spence, there are examples of Confucian values and ideologies depicted through the stories of average society members in a small village in the northeastern part of China. It is my belief that the author wanted to show a more realistic view of Chinese life during this time and to show struggles that the lower, working class had to face. Although Confucian views are present in this book, they were hard to find and not as strictly followed as they probably would be in a upper-class society.