When Papa spoke, he liked to reference history’s great thinkers and inspire an enlightened dialogue. “Great minds discuss ideas; average minds discuss events; small minds discuss people” is a quote by Eleanor Roosevelt that he casually reminded his grandchildren of when the conversation got petty or gossipy (Eleanor). However, not everyone so eagerly accepted his social habits. As a society, much importance is placed on contribution, and someone more private is often regarded as disrespectful. That translates into conversation. Words in their simplest form need clarification, and the lack of words has potential to be misinterpreted even more, which is why Papa was a frequently misunderstood man. People tended to question his quietness because it could be so easily mistaken for anger or rudeness. But those who gave him a chance learned to understand his reserved behavior. In fact, I understood it quite expertly because it was a quality that I also had, ergo giving me someone to relate to and to be inspired…
Silence are the words that are not said, rather then the words that are chosen. It is the fear of the truth as well as hiding from it. In the novel Obasan by Joy Kogawa, silence is a part of a culture and is a larger part of a family. The character Naomi allows silence to over come her life, which allows her to remain tortured inside the internment camp of her own body.…
You are a social care worker and a service user, Hannah, tells you that she is unhappy taking her new medication as she thinks she does not need it and so she is throwing it away. You know from her care plan that Hannah does need to take the medication regularly and gets confused. Hannah begs you to keep this confidential and not tell anyone especially her daughter, who she sees regularly, as her daughter will be very angry.…
In my opinion, Texas decided to leave the American Union because its fear of isolation from majority of the union, particularly the north. Also, escalation of fear and paranoia already took Texas by storm due to talk of the abolition of slavery. Lincoln won the presidential election of 1861 and the Republicans took control of the executive branch. With the Republicans now “strong enough in numbers”, Texas feared their rights would be taken for granted and the union would only fulfill the northern states wishes. Texas doubt was not without reason as Lincoln argued that all territories should be free and not allow slavery.…
My opinion about the code of silence is that it was in their blood to keep silent. In…
“Tradition is silent and the doubter is at liberty to entertain his doubt; but God forbid that I should share it!”…
Many people believe that the best way to learn about something is to never stop speaking. I, too, believed this, until hearing a very unique phrase in Porcupine Tree's "I Drive The Hearse": "Silence is another way / Of saying what I wanna say...". The quote describes something I hadn't thought of until hearing it for the first time: in some cases, silence truly is the best option for conveying a message. The idea is a strange one; how can inaction possibly result in a desirable outcome? After listening to the song repeatedly, analyzing the remainder of the song, I found the meaning is further conveyed in the very next line: "And lying is another way / Of hoping it will go away." It was then that the meaning had made itself clear; not all actions…
Three conceptual pillars of civility, respect, restraint and responsibility in place the foundation for achieving a beneficial meditational experience is essentially achievable; from everyday life experiences we can confidently state, everyone has moment of incivility but placing stabilization on your actions can directly affect the growth in your meditation experience. Forni begins to support this by stating, “As an art, civility has rules one can learn and facility with these rules can improve with practice. This is good news. The bad news is that often we are unable to imagine the benefits of that learning and practice. We thus leave untapped a resource that would prove invaluable in increasing the quality of our lives” (M., 2002, p.34). The unstoppable presence of incivility will always be a bump in our proverbial road of life; the ability to remain in a state, a state of civility, is a chance to improve your quality of life and those around you. Meditation as a stepping stone in these situations provides a great learning point and gives one the ability to grow, and keep improving.…
In Pirkei Avot, Rabbi Shimon son of Gamaliel declared: “All my days I grew up among the sages and I have found nothing better for a person than silence. Study is not the most important thing; rather the deed is most important. Too much talking leads a person to sin”…
When it comes to special education, discipline is a major concern in this area because many students are incessantly being expelled for their behavior issues that are caused by their disabilities. With the previous law students were excluded from school and received long suspension time because of their behavioral problems but when the new law was passed in 2004 students that are disable, is entitle to a free appropriate education under the Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA) and can no longer be expel from school if their behavior is due to their disability. With the new law, students can no longer be suspended for more than 10 days during a school term for behavioral issues and 45 days for weapon and illegal drugs. A Functional Behavioral Assessment (FBA) should be included within the special need students Individualized Education Plan (IEP) at the beginning of each school year so that the general education teachers is aware of the students behavioral problems and is able to handle them before the student get out of hand and the other students learning is disruptive. If students know what is expected of them in the beginning, I believe that they will try to keep their behavior under control especially when they are in a more controlled and structure classroom.…
One concept that I found valuable in Module 7 consists of the Purpose of Discipline. I found this valuable because in the military discipline is very important and sometimes vital to accomplishing the mission. Some orders need to be carried out regardless of your opinion and often I feel individuals lose sense of that. If an order was given and not carried out, the negative impact could hurt your base, wing, and unit. Having discipline shows your respect for authority as well as your loyalty. If no one in the military had discipline no missions would be accomplished and this would definitely not be the greatest Air Force in the world.…
All things considered, it is more damaging to say too much as opposed to saying too little. Throughout all communities in the United States as well as a universal truth, preventing something from happening is much easier than repairing damage done. In terms of silence versus honesty, holding a tongue is often easier than recalling words previously spoken. Whether it is a tribe of indigenous people in the Congo or the Amish community in Nappanee, Indiana, no case of silence and honesty is typical. Given a negative connotation, individuals fear the term ‘lying by omission’ yet it is something commonly done, both consciously and unconsciously, throughout their lifetimes. By using silence as both a weapon for peace and a shield of anonymity, persons breaking tradition have the power to utilize these tools to their advantage. With the tools of silence being in their grasp, all which is left is for them to keep their mouths…
In the “Ethics of Talk: Classroom Conversation and Democratic Politics,” by Ruth Grant, a certain quote seemed to draw my attention. “Can talking make people better? “ In my opinion, I feel that yes, and no. The reason why I say yes is because if the right person is talking, he or she can get their point across in a conversation. Also, being able to communicate effectively to one another is vital in understanding other people. Talking gives us the opportunity to get our point across or to be able to speak in an average conversation. Talking also gives us the chance to learn and teach. To be able to talk well is a very powerful thing. For instance, being able to talk well, and have people listen is an important aspect of being a leader.…
Danny has been brought up in silence by his father and now views it as something alive, a voice that speaks to people who are willing to listen to the pain and the happiness it expresses. Danny has grown to learn about it throughout his childhood, which is what Reb Saunders hopes for, so that Danny can learn to be a true tzaddik and take the pain of his people in silence like Reb Saunders has. Reuven and Danny are eating lunch one day, and Reuven is telling Danny about an anti-Hasidic story, making Danny laugh loudly. Suddenly, Reuven recalls something a student had said a few days ago, about how tzaddiks must sit in absolute silence and his followers shall listen attentively. As soon as the statement leaves Reuven’s mouth, Danny immediately stops laughing, but then he responds in a way that reminds Reuven of Reb Saunders: “I’ve begun to realize that you can listen to silence and learn from it. It has a quality and a dimension all on its own. It talks to me sometimes. I feel myself alive in it. ...It has a strange, beautiful texture. It doesn’t…
No one can better understand the importance of ‘information – knowing’ than the present human being. Information has the ‘greatest value’ in the present age – It is be all and end all. The well-informed decision means success, avoidance of risk and uncertainty, peace of mind in life, and for life as a whole. Having it and utilizing it mean success and not having it and ignoring it mean failure and being unwise. We all need information to decide mundane matters, like what I should wear tomorrow (based on information on weather) and where I should study, work, invest, live, dine, etc (all preferences are sorted on the basis of information). The information is indispensable and the ‘core and crux’ in all bargains of life. Life as a whole - a bargain – and real success (inner happiness, joy, peace and enrichment) in this bargain is absolutely based on taking into account all relevant information about life and visa versa. Islamic meditation is all about getting information, real insight, feeling secured, digging and uprooting the deepest sorrows, capriciousness, uncertainty and fears of our inner world. Is Meditation is the natural and permanent cure to anxiety, frustrations, purposelessness, loneliness, etc. The ‘destabilising factors’ which keep us away from real joys, happiness and peace, can be sorted our if we can have Truthful answers (and thereupon actions) to the following questions.…