One such instance I can recollect is an early memory from when I was around four or five. It is a known fact that my family is of Indian heritage but we never considered that an issue, instead a source of pride. As usual, there were of course people who didn’t agree that being brown was normal and of them was a white woman who lived in the block. I remember she used to despise my entire family. My mother and her got into many quarrels but one that is vivid in my mind is of my mother and I sitting together as the woman screamed from the driver's seat of her red car to “go back to where you came from”. I wish that this was the only time that I ever heard this coming from someone's mouth, but unfortunately, it wasn’t. The phrase “go back to where you came from” has been used on my loved ones and I many times that it has come to the point where I can laugh about it. Just the other day, my sister and I were sitting outside, listening to music and talking, when all of a sudden two white men passing by in a truck made a crude gesture at us and shouted obscenities. Not being one for conflict, I laughed it off, but my sister’s mood shifted drastically and she was filled with anger and irritation at mocking ;how far the world had come’, only to begin regress back to the way it once
One such instance I can recollect is an early memory from when I was around four or five. It is a known fact that my family is of Indian heritage but we never considered that an issue, instead a source of pride. As usual, there were of course people who didn’t agree that being brown was normal and of them was a white woman who lived in the block. I remember she used to despise my entire family. My mother and her got into many quarrels but one that is vivid in my mind is of my mother and I sitting together as the woman screamed from the driver's seat of her red car to “go back to where you came from”. I wish that this was the only time that I ever heard this coming from someone's mouth, but unfortunately, it wasn’t. The phrase “go back to where you came from” has been used on my loved ones and I many times that it has come to the point where I can laugh about it. Just the other day, my sister and I were sitting outside, listening to music and talking, when all of a sudden two white men passing by in a truck made a crude gesture at us and shouted obscenities. Not being one for conflict, I laughed it off, but my sister’s mood shifted drastically and she was filled with anger and irritation at mocking ;how far the world had come’, only to begin regress back to the way it once