Feminists suggest that domestic violence is a problem of patriarchy. In particular, research indicates that men's view that women have failed to be 'good' partners or mothers is often used to justify attacks or threats. These gendered expectations may be particularly reinforced is a woman goes out to work and earns more than her partner. Many boys and men are still brought up in traditional ways to believe that they should…
There is data that shows that some men want to control and dominate women. Data also shows that some men are looking for the "ideal wife" who silently accepts their controlling and dominant ways. Abuser men tend to justify their actions because women are seen as weak, emotional and short-sighted, so men believe that women need to be guided and controlled. Men who believe that they are entitled to the male privilege often resort to violence (Schrock & Padavic, 2007). The role of women has been rapidly changing in society. Men are not against women's empowerment but don't want to lose their control over women. Men consider it a cowardly act to beat women but still do it to coerce the women. Belief in stereotypes might be a factor behind men controlling and…
According to Torr’s and Swisher’s Violence Against Women, women still currently experience the dangers of domestic violence that many other psychologists and medical professionals have stated daily. In a male dominated world, women do not have the confidence or self-esteem to stand up for their rights and have a voice in government. Many girls and women from ages as low as under 12 to as high as 44 experience domestic violence during their lifetime in a ratio of 1:3 and only 20% of the women who are abused by their spouses report their incidents which have proven to be more dangerous than diseases, injuries, and wars (Torr and Swisher 110). Many reasons for men’s hostile behaviors towards women include the belief that males are the sole…
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One of the most common forms of violence against women worldwide is abuse by their husbands or other intimate male partners. Partner violence does not discriminate against race, age and socioeconomic background. Domestic violence is violence occurring between adults who are intimate, regardless of their living arrangements, marital status, or sexual orientations.…
Domestic violence is “a pattern of behavior used to establish power and control over another person through fear and intimidation, often including the threat or use of violence,” according to Safe Horizon (SH, 2015). Domestic violence can occur in many different relationships, such as parent-child relationships, dating couples relationships, or even sibling relationships. The psychological consequences of domestic violence are overlooked, most of the time, by people with the speculation that the victim can always just leave their attackers. Only about half of the cases of domestic violence are actually reported to authorities, according to the Feminist Majority Foundation (FMH, 2014). Battered…
The authors of this article studied the relationship between domestic violence, personal control and gender. Research literature explains the repercussions of a victim’s physical and psychological well-being. National surveys were conducted in order to collect data on rates of domestic violence. They found that the national survey data provides insight about gender, victimization, and perpetration of domestic violence, as well as help clarify how and why gender matters in the process of domestic violence. Their findings revealed a significant…
Although there are estimated percentages of marriages which contained physical abuse, the exact amount is unknown because many are unreported. Some spouses are pressured into keeping the violent situation to themselves. Violent abuse does not only happen to women; men also suffer physical abuse. According to national statistics, one in three women and one in four men have experienced some type of physical abuse by an intimate partner in their lifetime; Severe physical abuse is less, a reported one in seven women and one in eighteen men by their intimate partners. (National Coalition Against Domestic Violence) Just as affairs, remaining in a violent marriage would be difficult. Sometimes, forgiving someone once leads to them taking advantage and making the mistake again. Violent marriages are unhealthy to not only spouses, but also children. Children with violent parents grow up watching their parents fight. This is an unhealthy situation for all members of the family. Ongoing violent marriages are difficult to renew; the marriage is not easy to…
It is not easy to tell if the relationship will become abusive or not at the beginning of it. Domestic violence usually starts after the two get married and become a family as a whole. This is when the spouse wants control over everything but, if you do not cooperate with him/her, they will force you to do it by any means necessary. Domestic violence is also something hard to stop. Once you get in a relationship it is very hard to get out of it! Most the time the victims have to seek law enforcement just to even leave the home. However, sometimes victims attempt suicide thinking thats the only was…
Another aspect that provides question towards domestic violence is the abuser’s past. Research proves that individuals who are raised in violent surroundings are more likely to bestow violence upon their loved ones later in life. When someone is raised with violence and they are aggressive by nature there is no way for mistreatment to be earned. If they’re practically programmed to be violent,…
Intimate partner violence is a macro level problem that affects people all over the world. The term intimate partner violence consists of five methods, physical, sexual, stalking, psychological and economic abuse among former, current couples and individuals that are often close to each other. When people talk about intimate partner violence, the first thing that the general populations visualize is women getting abused by their male partners. However, intimate partner violence does not discriminate social structures, gender, age or economic status. Both poor and rich males and females of all ages can be victims of intimate partner violence, yet society views intimate partner violence as something that affects only women. Intimate partner violence is something that, to this day, continues to grow and harm many individuals. We, as a community, should bring more awareness to…
Many believe that the abuser is mentally ill but most times, that is not true. How one was raised and what they have witnessed in their households growing up are possible reasons to why they repeat the same offense with their partners. Colleen Croft also shot down the theory of domestic violence occurring in households due to heavy alcohol intake when that is not true either. My reaction to her statement was utter shock. I have never witnessed domestic violence but after reading so many articles about it, I always thought that it happened due to drunkenness. I never realized that the abuser does not beat his neighbor or boss while drunk, but he chooses to beat his wife. One of the men from the male violence support group said in his interview that he was very unhappy and suffered from insecurities so he counted on his wife to make him feel better about himself. When she failed to help him build his self esteem, he would beat…
Domestic violence has been framed to be understood as a women's issue, while men are often overlooked; making this a social conflict in our society. When we think about domestic violence, we think of women who are battered by their husband, boyfriend, or a man they used to involve with. However, every year in the U.S. about 3.2 million men are the victims of an assault by an intimate partner. Most assaults are, though many are more serious and has ended in homicide in some cases. About 15% of men are victims of reported intimate partner violence. Women who abuse men are not much different than their male who abuse women. Men can be hit, kicked, punched, pushed, or bitten by women abusers. Women also use weapons such as knives, guns, or other objects just as men do.…
Domestic violence is a habitual pattern of violent behavior in a relationship used by one partner in order to gain control and power over another intimate partner. This is the definition given by the US Office on Violence Against Women. Domestic violence can inflict anyone anywhere in the world regardless of age, race, religion and gender. Based on statistics, the leading cause of injury to women is domestic violence. The number of reported violence exceeds that of muggings, vehicle accidents and rapes combined. To illustrate the severity of this problem, a woman is assaulted every nine seconds in the US and more than 3 women are murdered either by their husbands or boyfriends daily. Why is domestic violence so rampant in the society? What are the factors that contribute to such violence?…
The majority of victims of intimate partner abuse are women, and they are assaulted by someone who is a former or current spouse, cohabiting partner (opposite or same-sex), date, or boyfriend or girlfriend. When the victim is female, 93.4 percent of the time the offender is male, and when the victim is male, 85.9 percent of the time the perpetrator is male (Gosselin 2000). Studies focusing on the adult male batterer have identified characteristics and personality risk-factors that characterize this type of abuser, but these factors can also be applied to female perpetrators, abusers in gay and lesbian relationships, and elder and child abuse situations. These characteristics, behaviors, and tactics of the offender of intimate partner domestic violence can include controlling behaviors (i.e., attempts to control the victim's time, dress, and behavior), fear and intimidation, manipulation, excessive rule-making, and isolation.…