Firstly I will look at the themes of her poetry. Family, childhood and home are recurring themes throughout her poetry. Bishop had quite an unfortunate childhood and lost both her parents at quite a young age. This is reflected in the unnerving images she often employs in accounts of her childhood.
This theme is central to many of her poems. “Sestina”, for example, is dominated by mages of rain, failing light and tears. Also in “First Death in Nova Scotia” she captures the confusion of a child faced with the inexplicable fact of her cousin’s death.
The use of the third person voice in “sestina” blends the poet’s adult perspective with the child’s. It also allows Bishop to distance herself emotionally. Quite noticeably there is no mother in “sestina”, which is reinforced by the repetition of “grandmother.” This lack of parental figure in Bishop’s life is common in her poems, all but “First Death in Nova Scotia”.
“Come,’ said my mother”
Bishop lost her mother at five years of age. Although her mother didn’t die at this time it is notable that the only poem in which she is mentioned is predominantly about death.
It seems Bishop never knew a true home and her search for a sense of belonging is apparent in “Filling Station.” At first she is disgusted by the “dirty” filling station. However as the poem progresses she discovers that it is a “family filling station.” She notices a warmer, more feminine touch in the home. “They lie upon a big dim doily draping a taboret.”