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Openness, a willingness to share part of yourself with others in an honest way. This helps the communication process by allowing the other person to trust that you are being honest and real with them. Empathy, to be able to feel what the other person is feeling and to put yourself in their situation. This helps the other person to open up to you, and trust that you can be understanding without…
In my essay, I will go over the definition of empathy, and how to be a good empathetic listener. I will explain the process that I have learned and implemented with the two test subject’s that I have interviewed. I will go over the challenges of empathetic listening, the effects that it has on a conversation, and the importance of empathetic listening; so we can efficiently improve our interpersonal skills. I will conclude with how I benefited from empathetic listening, and how it changed the way, as to how I should listen to other people.…
There are so many different theories out there that try to explain why we act the way we act. How do we explain evil or hateful behavior? I just finished reading the article ‘’Prison Violence: Does brutality come with a badge?’’, written by: Bruce Gross. This article talks about being a prison guard, and how some people act when they enter this career. Would you act differently if you went from the role of the prisoner to the role of the prison guard?…
Psychodynamic counselling was developed from psychoanalytic theory. Its main purpose is the client’s self-awareness and understanding of the influence of the past on present behaviour.…
With listening you also need to be able to ask the correct questions, so as to make sure you are aware of the whole situation and not just a small snippet. This will then help you to respond in the correct manner. You need to be considerate and show empathy where needed. It is good to be open minded and consider the other persons view point as well as your own.…
Solution-focused brief therapy respect cultures background, understanding the client with his or her culture or worldview, it encouraged the client to explore their reality from the culture structure. There might be communication barrier, because SFBT approaches directly and it might be odd for some culture that value indirect approach to a problem. (Ivey, D’Andrea, Ivey & Morgan, 2002). Lee (cited in Sharf, 2012) states that SFBT can be seen as an approach that will be approved by several cultures because it provides support and advice rather than analysis and labelling.…
Listening with your ears is important in being an empathetic listener. We need to be attentive and seek understanding of what the other person is saying, Virginia Johnson (1993). The best advice would be to listen and help your spouse express their emotions, give input that is helpful but not trying to suppress their emotions.…
This was a really eye opening experience. The inventory got me thinking about many different aspects and how I learn and approach different problems and situations. The implication is that the different selfs (physical, emotional, social, critical, creative, and passionate) affect how you learn. In some situations you might be more confident in yourself than others. However, after you complete the self profile it is not really well defined about what the term survival, maintenance, and enhancement means. I can deduce that the survival means that I am just getting by, the maintence means I am trying but have to work at it, and enhancement means that I have mostly mastered that portion of myself. This would open up a discussion with the support team as to what your strengths and weaknesses are. I know for myself by thinking about the questions, it made more aware and as I go into a situation, I might think differently about how I approach the…
Throughout engaging in empathetic listening the listener lets the speaker know, “I understand your problem and how you feel about it and I am interested in what you are saying, without judging you.” These feelings are conveyed by the listener through non-verbal cues and body language. Eye contact and not interrupting are very important in letting the speaker feel safe and understood. Paraphrasing is also an effective way to have them feel able to release their emotions and dive deeper into the problem, because it shows you understand what they are going through and builds rapport and trust in the relationship. Richard Salem (2003), “The use of empathy and listening skills, empathic listening, usually leads to great, long lasting relationships, emotional…
Emotional disclosure has important psychological and physical health benefits(Frattaroli, 2006), while non disclosure have been linked to negative outcomes in these areas (Kelly & Yip, 2006; Larson & Christain, 1990). Disclosure also aids in emotional recovery from negative events because it promotes insights, fosters social support, and reduces negative emotions (Kennedy-Moore & Watson, 2001). Individuals who are experiencing depression symptoms use maladaptive affect regulation strategies. Therefore, they tend to engage in lower levels of generalized disclosure…
Maintaining a capacity for empathy in contrast to pitying the pain of others creates a mirroring effect of compassion with potential to reach countless individuals beyond oneself. A disconnect lies within the use of sympathy to connect to others who are struggling and can often create a patronizing infliction that belittles the individual’s pain. Every individual fights a complex battle throughout their life, and the weapons to win one’s war can often be found in the advice from those who are willing to take the step to relate to another’s level. In the past three months, persisting through a challenge has allowed me to obtain an ability to give back to others that are dealing with similar feelings of discontent by sharing methods I used to bring myself out of confusion in my studies. By empathizing to the hardships…
There are myriad theoretical perspectives to guide counsellors when working with couples and families. One size does not fit all. Thus, is crucial that counsellors tailor their approach to meet the needs of each individual client. Narrative therapy and emotion-focused therapy are two approaches to couples and family counselling that provides clinicians with a framework to help clients broaden their understanding of themselves and those with whom they are close.…
It sounds simple. All you have to do is pay attention to the words that another person is saying to be an active listener. But active listening is more than paying attention and there are some barriers that sometimes have to be overcome to listen effectively. So as my colleague Avanthi explained now I’m going to highlight the various kinds of barriers confronted in listening actively.…
There once was a lost clear man as transparent as a crystal, named Empathy. He wandered aimlessly across the lands with a desire to explore and interact with others. He walked and walked until he grew weak he kneeled down to catch his breath slowly sinking closer to the ground. When he awoke there was a orange man dabbing a damp cloth on his head. Sitting up quickly the orange man encouraged him to rest saying that he had found him passed out in the middle of a field. Empathy rested for a little longer but then felt lead to explore more. He thanked the orange man who formally introduced himself as Kindness and shook his hand the orange from the man slowly seeped to Empathy’s hand making his hand completely…
Humanistic psychology, in short, is the study of an individual as a whole, while focusing on how the environmental and cultural factors surrounding that individual influences their thoughts, perspectives, and behaviors. Humanistic psychology focuses on the healthy human concept and does not isolate any particular aspect of a human being or being human. Humanistic psychologists are better suited to shift between the numerous aspect of psychology, based on the need of the individual client. As a science, Humanistic psychology was founded by Abraham Maslow in order to “combat and challenge the growing social and cultural crisis and the feelings of dehumanization and deindividualization of the twentieth century” (Buhler & Allen, 1972, p. v). Humanistic…