making the patients feel comfortable until they pass. One of the factors to consider when providing family-centered care at the end of life is understanding what these patients and their family members are going through.
These patients who are coming into a facility for end-of-life care are afraid to die. There are some patients who are struggling to find ways to prolong life through medical treatments; according to the article, “Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End,” there was a mother who had to deal with lung cancer. She tried so hard to survive by following various cancer treatments (Gawande, 2014). Another factor to consider is how they will die. Some may perceive that dying will be painful or they might even be afraid that they would lose their dignity (Lewis, 2013). Lastly, it is important to respect the patient’s wishes; for example, when I used to work at the skilled nursing facility a few years ago as Licensed Vocational Nurse, I remembered taking care of a patient who had cancer. The patient made a request that he didn’t want any more medications for his discomfort. I didn’t want him to give up on his medications; however, I had to respect his request and contacted the doctor to discontinue his medications. A few weeks later, the wife of the patient told me that he had passed away and that he wanted to thank me for respecting his
request.