In the most general sense, flourishing is a process in which an individual is stimulated in the activities of life in such a way that the individual feels fulfilled and expressive of their individuality. This idea of flourishing has drawn upon the ideas of numerous professionals in the field, but Erik Erikson specifically comes to mind. Erikson is known for his influential The Life Cycle Completed which explains the various stages of the human life cycle. According to Erikson each stage of life features a psychosocial crisis for each individual that—depending on how the individual manages—shapes future interactions. The psychosocial crisis that affects young adults is the struggle between intimacy and isolation. Erikson writes of intimacy, “Young adults emerging from the adolescent search for a sense of identity can be eager and willing to fuse their identities in mutual intimacy and to share them with individuals who, in work, sexuality, and friendship promise to prove complementary.” This is to say that our identities as young adults are not yet fully formed and that going forward our relationships go a long way in helping us define who we are. The antithesis to intimacy is isolation, which manifests itself as the fear of remaining disconnected and disassociated from others. Without relationships, it is hard for us to know who we are and who we are going to be. This is particularly challenged for people afflicted by trauma as trauma often times has a catastrophic impact on personal relationships. In order for a traumatized person to flourish they will need to piece together a sense of their own identity and cast a vision of a hopeful future for themselves. This process must include a rebuilding and reformulating of relationships. As someone who has experienced family trauma as a child, group therapy and counseling has had a tremendous impact on my flourishing. It was in the context
In the most general sense, flourishing is a process in which an individual is stimulated in the activities of life in such a way that the individual feels fulfilled and expressive of their individuality. This idea of flourishing has drawn upon the ideas of numerous professionals in the field, but Erik Erikson specifically comes to mind. Erikson is known for his influential The Life Cycle Completed which explains the various stages of the human life cycle. According to Erikson each stage of life features a psychosocial crisis for each individual that—depending on how the individual manages—shapes future interactions. The psychosocial crisis that affects young adults is the struggle between intimacy and isolation. Erikson writes of intimacy, “Young adults emerging from the adolescent search for a sense of identity can be eager and willing to fuse their identities in mutual intimacy and to share them with individuals who, in work, sexuality, and friendship promise to prove complementary.” This is to say that our identities as young adults are not yet fully formed and that going forward our relationships go a long way in helping us define who we are. The antithesis to intimacy is isolation, which manifests itself as the fear of remaining disconnected and disassociated from others. Without relationships, it is hard for us to know who we are and who we are going to be. This is particularly challenged for people afflicted by trauma as trauma often times has a catastrophic impact on personal relationships. In order for a traumatized person to flourish they will need to piece together a sense of their own identity and cast a vision of a hopeful future for themselves. This process must include a rebuilding and reformulating of relationships. As someone who has experienced family trauma as a child, group therapy and counseling has had a tremendous impact on my flourishing. It was in the context