Introduction; Rapport
Rapport is about the ability to relate to others and develop a trusting and understanding relationship. It is about being in “sync” being on the same “wavelength” as the person you are talking with. It is considered to be the most important aspect in a hypnotherapist work, as a strong rapport built with a client is the key to a successful and positive outcome. For hypnotherapy to be successful the client needs to recognise that you are honest, kind and caring and will then grow to trust you, relax and have the ability to build a good rapport. This will allow the therapist access to the subconscious mind, by bypassing the barrier/filter between the conscious and subconscious mind, the Conscious Critical Faculty (CCF).
The subconscious mind, tends not to analyze or criticize and it is where we can heal and make changes. A therapist with a good connection with the client can induce hypnosis and alter the way they feel, shift limiting or outdated beliefs, dispel unhealthy emotions or negative thought patterns and eradicate bad habits and/or addictions (http://www.uruniq.co.uk/hypnotherapy.php 20/2/15).
This is because the barriers between the conscious and subconscious mind are relaxed and are open to suggestion increasing susceptibility to suggestion. As a result a foundation is laid for real growth and healing to occur. (http://www.counsellingtutor.com/basic-counselling-skills/rapport/ 10/2/14).
It is, therefore, essential to know how to build rapport with all clients of different backgrounds and personalities. It doesn’t mean that the person has to like you, but it is usually a reward of having built rapport.
Building Rapport
A relationship begins with the first meeting and therefore first impressions are important. A person will make assumptions about you using their deductive logic based on your appearance, speech