The word is first used by Ophelia, describing her vague relationship with Hamlet, where she says, “He hath, my lord, of late made many tenders …show more content…
Tender yourself more dearly, / Or (not to crack the wind of the poor phrase, / Running it thus) you’ll tender me a fool.” …show more content…
In other context, it means “to treat with affectionate care… to take care of, look after” (OED). In other words, he wants Ophelia to take better care of herself, and not let the false promises of the prince coerce and mislead her, as Polonius and his son Laertes are not very fond of Hamlet. These uses of the word leave the reader thinking, and may even lead one to believe that Polonius does actually care for his daughter, as the word “tender” has the connotation of love or attachment connected to it. While his long speeches may be motivated for his passion to hear himself speak, whether intentional or not his words of advice are not