Julian believes that “Knowing who you are is good for one generation only....you do not have the foggiest idea...who you are”(O'Connor 28). His mother, on the other hand, believes that 'knowing who you are' is close to an eternal concept. As Julian's mother says, “you remain who you are”(O'Connor 28). That indicates she believes the essence of a person does not change, and the essence of a family does not change with the passage of time, which is why she is so fixated on her family
Julian believes that “Knowing who you are is good for one generation only....you do not have the foggiest idea...who you are”(O'Connor 28). His mother, on the other hand, believes that 'knowing who you are' is close to an eternal concept. As Julian's mother says, “you remain who you are”(O'Connor 28). That indicates she believes the essence of a person does not change, and the essence of a family does not change with the passage of time, which is why she is so fixated on her family