First thing falling apart in Okonkwo’s life, which all three examples can be related back to this one; his mental health. The way he rules his household with a heavy hand, comes from him battling with the fact that his father “Unoka” had a terrible reputation throughout the village as being a coward. Okonkwo there for fixates his mind on how to make sure he never does anything his father did; For example, never show compassion like his father always had.
Second; he loses connection with his son “Nwoye”. First by losing his sons trust; after he is part of the killing of “Ikemeuna” who his son had grown to look upon as an older brother. Then as citing from