suffering.When a person needs to accept they suffering incurable illness or ready to lose intimate
links with his family, friends, lovers,they will generate depressed emotion. Five stages of grief
are the common experience for everyone.The first stage of grief is denial and isolation.And then
the second one is anger.Next is bargain and depression.Acceptance is the last stage of grief.It is
true that he felt depress and despair because of his “locked-in syndrome”. Honestly, it is not
difficult to find his relevant words, thoughts, and behaviors about five stages of grief. However,
his grief was settled in the first stage. Because he wrote very …show more content…
It is necessary to
understand the mean of denial and isolation. Denial, as the name implied, is the mean of
rejection and disaffirmation. Similarly, isolation is the mean of separation and insulation. In this
stage, people will deny the cruel fact.They will submerges themselves in old memories and keep
recalling the experience with his friends, lovers, family.Not only do they recall a short
conversation, but also they remember every specific detail. Also, they will replay the some rites
in their mind or in behaviors to remind them life as usual. The reasons Bauby was settled in the
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fist stage, because the old memories prevail in his book and some particular experiences replay
in his mind and behaviors.
First of all, Bauby paid more attention to denial and isolation,because he lived in
memories.Whether he recall his favorite sausage in his childhood, or he memory the last time to
shave his old father, or he made the trip to Lourdes with his ex girlfriend, or other