Virginia attempts to write and feels her failure when she cannot do so. Richard does not believe he could have won his award without having AIDS—his writing is not meaningful, him having AIDS is what made him successful. Laura’s inability to bake a cake defines her failure as a mother and wife—while her life seems happy, she can never reach happiness and that is her greatest failure. With each of these three persons, there is inevitability to their feelings of failure, especially with the prominence of self-distortion in their mental capacities. While their significant others cannot. Virginia, Richard, and Laura wrestle with the idea of mortality and can accept their own deaths. Leonard does everything in his power, including sacrificing himself, to protect Virginia from herself. He desperately clings to her life and will do whatever he deems necessary to see her life continue, despite her own criticisms sometimes and two previous suicide attempts. He is unwilling to let her go. We see the same characteristics in Clarissa. Even with Richard’s miserable condition, she refuses to let him go. She even prompts him to continue living in “this condition,” meaning barely surviving. For Laura, her significant other is actually Rich in her times of crisis. He refuses to let her go when she drops him off so that she can go to the hotel. As he thrashes and screams in the babysitter’s arms for his mother, he has the feeling that she is not coming back and will not accept
Virginia attempts to write and feels her failure when she cannot do so. Richard does not believe he could have won his award without having AIDS—his writing is not meaningful, him having AIDS is what made him successful. Laura’s inability to bake a cake defines her failure as a mother and wife—while her life seems happy, she can never reach happiness and that is her greatest failure. With each of these three persons, there is inevitability to their feelings of failure, especially with the prominence of self-distortion in their mental capacities. While their significant others cannot. Virginia, Richard, and Laura wrestle with the idea of mortality and can accept their own deaths. Leonard does everything in his power, including sacrificing himself, to protect Virginia from herself. He desperately clings to her life and will do whatever he deems necessary to see her life continue, despite her own criticisms sometimes and two previous suicide attempts. He is unwilling to let her go. We see the same characteristics in Clarissa. Even with Richard’s miserable condition, she refuses to let him go. She even prompts him to continue living in “this condition,” meaning barely surviving. For Laura, her significant other is actually Rich in her times of crisis. He refuses to let her go when she drops him off so that she can go to the hotel. As he thrashes and screams in the babysitter’s arms for his mother, he has the feeling that she is not coming back and will not accept