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Fatal Attraction
Interpersonal Relationship Principle Of
Fatal Attraction Defined

Beatriz David

Psychology Of Interpersonal Behavior- Section 3110
Professor Dana Donohue
December 4, 2009

Abstract
One of the reasons that so many marriages today end up in divorce today has to do with the interpersonal personal relationship principle known as fatal attraction. When most people think of fatal attraction, they right away think of the popular definition represented in the movie “Fatal Attraction”. This paper will define the principle of fatal attraction from an interpersonal relationship perspective. Along with a definition of fatal attraction, I will explore some of the causes of fatal attraction. I will discuss my experiences with fatal attractions. Peer reviewed articles together with my own personal experiences will be used to further expound on the definition of fatal attraction. I have illustrated the effect that fatal attraction has had on my own interpersonal relationship. I will also show how in a relationship other principles of interpersonal relationships are influenced by fatal attraction. This paper will also provide an example of how a fatal attraction can take an emotional and psychological toll not on a relationship but also in an individual.

Interpersonal Relationship Principle Of Fatal Attraction Defined From a psychological and sociological perspective, the term fatal attraction means something quite different than its’ pop culture definition. The psychological and sociological definition is when a quality that an individual comes to dislike in a partner is an exaggerated version of the same quality that was initially attractive. A fatal attraction occurs when an intimate partner is seen as having too much of an attractive quality. Fatal attractions are a common occurrence in intimate relationships. It is also a common cause of disenchantment in many relationships. In my 15-year marriage, both my ex-husband and myself had the misfortune of



References: Felmlee, Diane H. 2001. “From Appealing to Appalling: Disenchantment with a Romantic Partner.” Sociological Perspectives. Volume 44(3): 263-280 Felmlee, Diane H. 1998. “Be Careful What You Wish For…’ A Quantitative and Qualitative Investigation of ‘Fatal Attractions’.” Personal Relationships. Volume 5: 235-253 Sprecher, Susan, Schmeeckle, Maria, and Felmlee, Diane H. 2006. “The Principle of Least Interest: Inequality in Emotional Involvement in Romantic Relationships.” Journal of Family Issues 2006. Volume 27: 1255-1280

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