Feminism: Traditional Chicano Women

Feminism is defined as, "the advocacy of women's rights on the grounds of political, social, and economic equality to men" yet all around women seem to be taking a step back from such "progress" they have so called "fought" for. Not only as a traditional Chicano male but as a Christian I believe that there are certain things a woman must and mustn't do. Feminists want to be seen equal as a man but can't live up to what they claim. If a woman wants to be seen equal as a man why must she use her sexual appeal to gain what she wants? Last time I checked that is NOT an act of feminism. Why must women complain about certain things men do? If a woman believes that she, "can do whatever a man can do perhaps even better" she has no reason to complain.
Feminists claim that they're a movement of equality but fail to look at the inequalities the is placed among men also. There's a double standard that's going on and feminists decide to pick and chose what they want to argue and fight for. If we take a look back in the 19th century women fought for their right to vote and so a whole movement began. Nothing wrong with wanting to vote but women also started to want to be more independent, to work and be able to divorce their husbands. It went from a movement to wanting equality that along the lines of time that initial intention has transformed to wanting more than what they need.