As seen in Fish Cheeks by Amy Tan, the author is afraid that Robert will be disappointed in her family’s traditions: “What would Robert think of our shabby Chinese Christmas” (Tan 185). Amy was so worried about what Robert would think, that she thought poorly of her culture. At the time, Amy wished she was just an average American. Amy’s mother was very upset with the way Amy was acting: “You must be proud you are different. Your only shame is to have shame” (Tan 186). Her mother tells her that it is okay to be different. Amy realizes later on that her mother is right. Culture caused Amy a temporary issue, but once she looked back on the big picture, she realized how important culture
As seen in Fish Cheeks by Amy Tan, the author is afraid that Robert will be disappointed in her family’s traditions: “What would Robert think of our shabby Chinese Christmas” (Tan 185). Amy was so worried about what Robert would think, that she thought poorly of her culture. At the time, Amy wished she was just an average American. Amy’s mother was very upset with the way Amy was acting: “You must be proud you are different. Your only shame is to have shame” (Tan 186). Her mother tells her that it is okay to be different. Amy realizes later on that her mother is right. Culture caused Amy a temporary issue, but once she looked back on the big picture, she realized how important culture